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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Mark_Best33, Mar 26, 2020.
Everyday i woke up with sex in my head. It is suspicious.
It happens on NOFAP ?
Yup. Pretty much every day for me.
Hey found some research on how our brains get subconscious stimulated before we even notice it.
Not so strange. I mean it really depends on you. For example you've already stated many times that you're doing this to improve yourself and find a girlfriend to have sex with so I guess it's a natural consequence that you woke up like this.
There's also people here that are choosing a celibate life on purpose so I guess they don't wake up like this.
It depends on you
I have found that I have the sexual feelings that a woman triggers. Overwhelm me.
Happens to me too, especially after the first month, sometimes the thoughts are so powerful it takes me up to an hour to stop fantasizing and wake up from bed
With me it is so that I have more sexual dreams
Another intreseting discovery
What really annoys me is that I was aware early on that watching porn is a big problem for me. I even went to a pscho doctor about it. With the point that it was difficult to talk about it. This problem was not taken seriously at all. Just leave it at the words
I think I kinda understand you, cause for me went to various therapists and non of them understood what I was going through I was feeling like am being judged than feeling like am recovering or being heard.
I tried to share it with some of my friends thinking they understand but it was all in vain non of them could even believe that I was PMOing. So it's here on nofap that I first felt love and understanding. I place I belonged and was accepted.
Had a wet dream. My mind played some trick on me at night.
Cause I have been doing some exercises that's are supposed to reduce wet dreams. Basically I don't like wet dreams since I be losing my sexual energy.
And also it's an achievement cause I would normally have a wet dream around day 25-29 of the streak but I was able to extend it to day 35 big up to me. And again congs to myself
Apart from your reasons of doing nofap here are some others reasons nofap has to offer to you:
For Bros, some knowledge about ED
The discussion is dying my friends, and it's a pity we could support each others.
How are you doing?
I am waiting for gym opening
I understand that this wouldn't work for everyone, but I went to see a Christian therapist for that exact reason. I figured a lot of other therapists might not take my addiction seriously. I found it really helpful being able to talk openly about my struggles with porn to another person irl.
Me too! I'm doing the best I can at home, but I want to get back.
Honestly, not great. The situation I talked about earlier is still on my mind (i.e. about getting tempted by the video game I was playing). I can't believe such a stupid thing is pulling at me so strongly.
Alright, let's get some discussion going.
On Sunday I will reach 90 days without MO that I've been tracking since before I signed up to NOFAP. I have looked at porn during this time, hence why my counter says 25 days, but I have no inclination to jerk off.
I don't think I'm experiencing any ED, but how would I know anyway? I don't get hard-ons unless I really think about it. I still get turned on by women, I was watching this movie House of the Devil, and the main chick in it is hot as fuck. There's no nudity or anything, and she's dressed the whole time, but she's got a cute face and an awesome figure. So, there's blood and guts flying everywhere and I'm just sitting there thinking about eating her muff. Wait, where was I...So, I think I'm good in the hard-on department, but the real test will be intimacy with a woman, which is not looking promising anyway with the lockdown.
I've been talking to a few women on Tinder and other apps, you talk for a bit, do a video date, things seem to be going well...and then they just end up ghosting. No goodbye, no 'sorry, I'm not interested,' no anything. Just zero contact ever again. It seems the majority of women on Tinder are only interested in what you can do for them. Nothing about what they can contribute to a codependent relationship. I'm not bitter with women, I've met and I know good women, but it's hard to find someone compatible. Fuck Tinder.
I think kettlebell and boxing training is the best exercise ever. I'm lucky I've got a punching bag, but if you're looking to exercise just get a kettlebell and watch some YouTube tutorials. Good for cardio and muscle gain.
Happy to talk if anyone is interested.
Honestly, I've pretty much given up hope with online dating. I regularly use a dating app right now because I have no other way of meeting people and it feels good to be doing something towards my goal of finding a girlfriend. If I'm feeling angsty and lonely, a dating app is a better option than porn. You never know. Something could happen. It also gives me practice with talking with women. Talking with them irl would, of course, be better, but again, it's better than nothing.
I want to do the same but firstly i have to do some pictures. My face is something 5 or 6/10 and i never did pictures of myself. So i feel stucked