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  1. Ὀρφεύς

    Ὀρφεύς Fapstronaut

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    I am in NoFap because fapping without acknowledging the vanity of it is against my moral beliefs. I want to pursue an honorable life that will enable me to look people in the eye with confidence. I am idealistic, romantic and creative soul and those demons make me despicable ( I am talking about only mine), they steal from me a lot of time which I could use for improving myself and giving something to the world. I am much more creative while I am in nofap, I wish it could give me and diligence.
     
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  2. fg4795

    fg4795 Fapstronaut

    So my turn I guess
    Why I joined?
    I was at the rock bottom.
    I was really asking myself "how am I?"
    and I understood that it didn't matter, it matter who I am trying to be.
    So that's why I am here.
    To discover a new me
     
  3. Subzero-32

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    I started Nofap because I don't wanna be a scared boy anymore, because I want to be the honourable man I always imagined I could be, because I got tired of complaining and playing the victim role, to transform from a life of short term pleasure to a life of long term fulfillment
    To be spiritual rather than controled by the materialistic world
    To find my mission, and add value to the world and bring life and energy to the places I go to, to make my parents proud because they did work hard for me
    To no longer wait for someone or something to save me from the hell I created myself
     
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  4. ANameThatStartsWithK

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    Hey,
    May I join too or am I late?
    The reasons I joined Nofap is because is because porn is immoral and the escalated fetishes were driving me insane and into immence worry for myself. I didnt know that I had pied I just thought that I'm like this way or my vitality had been lost somehow. I just could not live with ogling every women I met at work, at church or in the neighborhood and desperately needed to fix myself.
     
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  5. Ὀρφεύς

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    I always try hard to not relapse, always think about challenge and goal, but not in this way somebody achieves the long-term goal. You must be busy doing other stuff and think about nofap as little as possible. :( I didn't relapse, just saying. BE PRODUCTIVE.
     
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  6. Raven King

    Raven King Fapstronaut

    To make a long story short, it was ruining my life.

    After being on pmo for 10+ years, my life was becoming a mess, affecting my relationships, my work and my health. I would not get enough sleep, because I was staying up to late. Always tired. No ambition. Despite being a social person, PMO made me isolate myself. A lot of anxiety and fears, sometimes so bad I thought I was gonna die. I still have muscles that twitch due to anxiety, but it's getting much better. My ability to perform in bed has also been affected by PMO.

    In short, there's no alternative for me. NoFap is the only way to get my life back.
     
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  7. Address007

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    Thanks to @Mark_Best33 for inviting me to this challenge. Hope we all succeed!
     
  8. ANameThatStartsWithK

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    Day 43 Hour 22 no pmo :

    My number one trigger is being overwhelmed. Other than that - lude jokes in movies, anime and YouTube videos. Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me I feel bored and anxious at the same time and I think I'll register on a chat app or something however after my first few relapses I've learned my lesson and I stay away from those.
     
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  9. RBYG_flag

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    I have joined Nofap to.get free from these PMO chains, restore self-confidence, to find my life partner, to achieve more inna life!
     
  10. Ipolit

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    I've joined nofap.com cause I get tired of similar resource from my region. I just needed a fresh start. On why I decided to quit pmo, if saying it as short as possible - cause it is a slavery. It is just impossible to be mentaly healthy, productive and happy human being if you have sex-related addiction. Have to say that having a girlfriend is not going to magicaly cure you, your sex addiction will just shift into another dimension - that was my story few months ago - and then it'll shift back. I wasn't watching porn or masturbate for months but I was constantly thinking about sex, and, ofcourse, such an addict could only find a partner with similar mind, so my gf was also a porn addict, and I think with even more deep addiction, and still during rejection phase. Wasting your life on sex without love is definetely more healty way than wasting it watching porn, but it is still a waste. I have only chance to have a healthy life and to have a family only if I will break free of porn addiction. That is the only way. Starting a family being a porn addict... well, that'll be nothing but a tradegy for all members.

    I just want to be a better person. to do something that matters. My life is a total waste. Now I'm just nobody. And that'll be that way until I kill this addiction. Maybe than I'll have a chance.
     
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  11. Ozo

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    I want to finally get the ability to become normal with people. My masculinity means to get to know women with self-confidence.
     
  12. Ozo

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    I can hardly stand it anymore. I've never been so strictly consistent with abstinence. Become totally depressed and anxious.
     
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  13. 1. (Religious) To have a better relationship with God in order to make it to Heaven in the afterlife
    2. To become an elite runner and athlete (ties into #3)
    3. To have more energy on the daily for maximum productivity
    4. Curing PIED and PE
    5. Being able to utilize my Master's degree better in order to get the job that I desire
    6. To have way more confidence and openness around beautiful women, while not feeling weak around other men
    7. To heal past relationships that have fizzled out because of the devestating effects of PMO
    8. To be more assertive and manly, while not being too nice and acting like a beta
    9. To heal my past and find a girlfriend/future wife (a woman who is also against the PMO lifestyle with good Christian values), someone who I will spend the rest of my life with
    10. For a deeper voice, "aura", and trustworthiness among my closest family/friends
     
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  14. Matt_Es

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    How's everyone going? I was tempted to look at porn just now, but I didn't.I've come so far to just throw it all in. Unsure what brought it on, haven't been tempted at all for a while, probably boredom and cabin fever induced by Coronavirus lockdown. Maybe this just reinforces how strong an addiction it is, and I've used for 20+ years.

    I've also given up cigarettes in the last 3 weeks, on the champix. Haven't had one since. Aaaand I haven't had a drink in 2 weeks. Aiming for a month alcohol free. So you might say I'm doing hard mode...
     
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  15. Ozo

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    Important addition: I think the world situation is worse than what it is so I think everything is bad. This could cause relapse. And i mean normal life not Covid 19.
     
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  16. Ὀρφεύς

    Ὀρφεύς Fapstronaut

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    "As you set out for Ithaka
    hope your road is a long one,
    full of adventure, full of discovery.
    Laistrygonians, Cyclops,
    angry Poseidon—don’t be afraid of them:
    you’ll never find things like that on your way
    as long as you keep your thoughts raised high,
    as long as a rare excitement
    stirs your spirit and your body.
    Laistrygonians, Cyclops,
    wild Poseidon—you won’t encounter them
    unless you bring them along inside your soul,
    unless your soul sets them up in front of you.
    <...>"
     
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  17. HPE

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    Wow you're cutting out all those addictions at once that is heroic. Posts like yours inspire me. Keep it up champ :emoji_clap:
     
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  18. Subzero-32

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    Just a question guys: do you feel dizzy or experience headaches after being hit by urges? I had some crazy urges today and it took a lot of will power to put everything under control, I feel dizzy and my head is aching, It's like I'm back from a tough battle, mentally drained but feeling like a badass, I hope it's not damaging to my recovery
    Goodluck everyone, stay strong
     
  19. Never had that happen to me and iam sure its nothing serious just makes you a warrior bro :) make sure to stay hydrated
     
  20. Raven King

    Raven King Fapstronaut

    Yes, this has definitely happened to me.
     

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