10% gay?
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It's a grey area but TG isn't exactly a gay thing. As for watching female porn you can always do what ever you want but if watching porn interferes with your life it doesn't matter what porn it is.
Personally if I'm attracted to a girl and she had a dick I really would not care. Porn is dehumanizing on both ends of the screen. If your girlfriend has a dick doesn't mean she is your boyfriend.
You don't know what you're talking about, and you don't know what hocd disorder is.
So, just stfu.
To be honest I wasn't worried, I do find the idea of being intimate with a man gross but I'm not thinking like 'I hope I'm not even 10% gay because that'd be awful' if that makes sense.
Quitting is tough. Really tough. I guess I haven't tried that hard because I figured I'm in my early 20s, been with a girl for years who rarely wants sex.. so I figured I'm just a man reaching his prime, who is constantly teased seeing his girlfriend naked and not having sex as much as I'd personally like to. Kinda see it as natural personally.
However, the more taboo stuff isn't right. I've gradually gone down the rabbit hole without even noticing. However, I did PMO today before work and it was to m*lf solo pictures, not even videos. Sad to say I was kinda proud of myself just for getting off (very easily actually) over that. The classic stuff still has it's novelty
Just stop with porn forever, otherwise you will ruin yourself.
I'm not interested in gay porn. I also expressed I have nothing against it, but the idea just repulses me. Goes to show you didn't pay much attention and came here to be a dick.
hotToddy, yes that's about what it was. Are you in the UK? I noticed you wrote slap "round" the face. Sounds English.
Easier said than done!
The argument on the other hand, just to play devil's advocate, would be that if you found it disgusting, why did you get off over it? You can't be forced into doing something yourself if you found it gross?
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I am 5% straight, considering my sexual contacts. Or 95% gay. Or 10% bisexual if you want to rephrase it. If you had just two real life sexual experiences and one of them was straight, you are 50%. Porn doesn´t count. If you have only watched porn, you are techniqually still a virgin and potential sacrifice for Satan.
Yes mate well spotted haha
jwitcher
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I still wonder how can people measure so promptly how straight or gay or bi are they, though.
Landser
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After i cum i feel disgusted... Thats why i decided to get rid of any porn in my life.
Same as what risitas said, I don't feel any shame after O to TG porn. But feel weird and uncomfortable after forced bi stuff. Once got really high and just watched gay porn and I'm never doing that again. Creeped me out for days.
Do you think I've just reached a limit now where it's just the norm and I don't feel any disgust? I feel embarrassment, sure. And wouldn't admit my fondness toward TG porn to anyone, But I don't get those uncomfortable 'wtf did I just do' feelings after.
Landser
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Only real girl can fix this. Stop doing this shit get a grip. There are alot of REAL girls waiting for you out there mate.
Been in a relationship for almost 6 years now but thanks for the motivation
SilentRa1n
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K.I.S.S. - Keep it simple stupid. The more you complicate it or dissect it, the deeper the rabbit hole you fall into.
Neo123
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I 've been into ts porn for about 3 years now and I saw escorts to see if I like it. I went once, twice, then again, for a total of 5 times.
I liked it 2/5 times. 3/5 times I was disgusted afterwards. Also I really got paranoid for contracting HIV so that terrified me.( I later got tested and was negative,thank god) So yeah I liked it 2 times because they were nice and clean and feminine. Does that mean I will always like them? I don't know. Before finding the porn I wouldn't do it. And even on NoFap I usually mostly think about normal girls. I don't know if I am naturally into being submissive sometimes or if it is just because of porn. Either way I am doing NoFap to find out that too, and let me tell you my brain does not like that , its like: dont stop because this is awesome and you dont want to lose the need for it! -
But I dont trust my brain. I know I like hot chicks. And from what people are saying, it seems that it goes away after you re-wire.
Let's hope for the best. Best wishes.
I liked it 2/5 times. 3/5 times I was disgusted afterwards. Also I really got paranoid for contracting HIV so that terrified me.( I later got tested and was negative,thank god) So yeah I liked it 2 times because they were nice and clean and feminine. Does that mean I will always like them? I don't know. Before finding the porn I wouldn't do it. And even on NoFap I usually mostly think about normal girls. I don't know if I am naturally into being submissive sometimes or if it is just because of porn. Either way I am doing NoFap to find out that too, and let me tell you my brain does not like that , its like: dont stop because this is awesome and you dont want to lose the need for it! -
But I dont trust my brain. I know I like hot chicks. And from what people are saying, it seems that it goes away after you re-wire.
Let's hope for the best. Best wishes.
Think I'd actually consider that if I became single. I'd definitely make sure they were 'clean' beforehand though.
In all honesty I'm not ashamed for liking TG's you see in porn. But it's kind of escalated to the point where I'm not sure whether I'm discovering/exploring parts of my sexuality or, as most people say on here, my mind is being warped by pornography in a spiralling dopamine rush, constantly breaking down taboos as each level peaks in novelty.
I wasn't trying to imply that at all, but the attraction, not to mention the d*cks does leave a grey area for questioning.