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100 Days (or so)

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by One Eyed Owl, Nov 17, 2019.

  1. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    So I have reached 100 days. I have to admit that I never thought that I would
    make it this far. I have been addicted to porn ever since I was teenage;
    if you where to tell me, then,that I would survive 100 days of no porn I would
    have laughed.

    But here I am and now I'm about to tell you how I did it.
    The thing that I have noticed most when I watch porn is that
    I am either bored or stressed. So I tried to keep myself busy;
    whether it is doing laundry, cleaning my room, running, walking,
    playing football or basketball, reading, or listing to music.
    So far, it has worked really well. Most of the time I am really
    exhausted from exercise or taking care of various stuff (like cleaning
    the room and etc.). Finally the biggest help is you guys! Seriously all
    of the people that I have meet so far on my journey, you guys are the best.
    I would list everyone, but you know who you are (All of the hugs).

    So now I want to list the stuff that I want to improve on or stuff that
    I have been doing, but I want to get better at.(Yes I could put this in
    another thread, but I'm lazy [and proud of it] so here we go):

    Exercise: While I do very well at least doing once per day, I mostly want
    to walk/run farther. Also I want improve my basketball skills (especially my
    3 point shooting, I make Ben Simmons look like Stephen Curry).

    Eating Breakfast: I use to be pretty good at eating one per day, but then
    4 years of having to eat trash college food changed that.

    Going to Sleep earlier: A majority of the time I have been going to sleep
    around 11 or 11:30, I would like to try to get to sleep around 10:00.

    Being more Social: For those of you who don't know, I am a pretty quiet guy and
    talking is not one of my greatest skills. I think the best way to approach this
    problem is just to start on the little things, like saying Hello or How is your
    day, is a good way to start.

    Self-Confidence: This is gotta be one of my worst problems. Between my addiction
    to porn and other personal stuff that has happened in my life, my self-confidence
    is at zero. I have to admit that I have no idea how to improve myself, so if
    you guys have any suggestions please feel free to let me now.

    And that is it, thanks everyone for reading this.


    See You Space Cowboy...
     
  2. You are doing great. You know how to handle things. Go for it!
     
  3. swordsman163

    swordsman163 Fapstronaut

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    Hi beautiful soul:emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat: You deserve the grandest celebration of all. I wish all the very best for your future life, many Congratulations to you my dear!My best wishes are for you always! You deserve the biggest congratulation for all your hard works! You have proved once again that you’re worthy of all the big things in life. :emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat:

    You bring so much happiness to the lives of those around you and have been a beacon of love, wisdom and support for your community. Whether it be with your words or a gentle hug, you have provided your loved ones with IMMEASURABLE amounts of care and guided them through some of the toughest times and for that they are so, so grateful.:emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat:

    You have never expected anything in return, your love has forever been unconditional, without judgement and has provided the ultimate safe place for those around you to grow + blossom thanks to your care. You're such an incredible person One Eyed Owl and i those who absolutely adore you would like you to know that this world is MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL PLACE with you in it.:emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat:

    My love, if something isn't making you happy- you can walk away, you can run, you can question it, you can ask for more, you can make a change. Our minds can be tricky when left to their own devices + convince us we are stuck, incapable or even worse that we don't deserve any different. That is rubbish. Absolute rubbish. I'm here with my megaphone on the highest rooftop in your city reminding you that you are worthy of joy in all aspects of your life. You never, ever need anyones permission but your own. You deserve happiness in abundance, always.:emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat:

    Did you see that? The way you smile with your whole face, how you can light up a room with your laugh, how you can reassure with a look, how warm your hugs are, how your eyes make that person fizzy, how your voice can guide someone home?

    The obvious big bits+ the subtle tiny kindness you do that you'd never allow yourself to receive credit for all add up. You are made up of some pretty incredible stuff. Every now + then allow yourself the kindness to recognise that. Lots of love One Eyed Owl :emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat::emoji_heartbeat:
     
  4. IbrahimViking

    IbrahimViking Fapstronaut

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    You are an inspiration to others. Kind, fun and articulate. Great job, thanks a lot for sharing!
    Bang.
     
  5. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

  6. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Bang.
     
  7. Nines

    Nines Fapstronaut

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    My Journal
    Thanks for sharing this. Looks like "you're 'not' gonna carry that weight" ;-)

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  8. Congratulations man, keep doing the good work, maybe now abstaining from Masturbation as a whole would be a good goal to start. Best wishes :)
     
  9. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Thanks for advice Mr. Chips!!!
     
  10. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Thanks sir!!!
     
  11. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Great areas to improve ourselfs . Our new life awaits :) .. Yes ..we can :)
     
  12. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Yes we can :)
     

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