100 Days Without P or M - The Ultra Marathon (Started on May 15, 2020)

I think I'm on my 6th day - and oh my, I am so very unproductive right now. I cannot focus on any tasks whatsoever. I'm not having any MO or PMO thoughts at all, but I absolutely cannot concentrate on anything. I'm not sure I recall this ever happening before.

 

This happened to me on my day 3/4... horrible feeling I feel your pain. It does pass... how strange tho that we all experience it but at very different times. I think Jefe mentioned to me that this is when our normal dopamine levels are destabilising. It will get better! The good thing is you have no pmo urge, similar to myself

 

Thanks, hoping this passes quickly. Going to run when I get home....just go to exhaustion I think, which is NOT going to take much, fyi.

 

I am in, I hope I can make 30 days It will give me high motivation, last time I relapsed on day 21
But this time I strong than last time

 

Hey @ooo123 I too have fallen short in my 20's a few times. I'm really excited as this is my first official challenge. Can't wait to see you hit 30, I'll be right behind you my friend.

 

Hey, Thanks for this support, Wish that we can do it
I am really excited now

 

For me this is something that I recall happening quite late in the streak, after the flatline when the sexual urges return I've had entire days of fixating on sexual thoughts and feelings and was not able to do any work at home, period. A little different than what you're experiencing but I can relate to the unproductiveness, the almost crippling feeling of not being able to do things. Power through it and accept the investment of time, it's for the greater good. As kkn93hc7 said, it will pass and you'll be stronger for it in the end.

@netsurfer Sorry you tapped out man, but like the others, I encourage you to get right back up and fight with no PMO. I've recently come off of a 60+ day streak and when I finally fell, I returned right back to fighting and now I'm a week in and in a way the week went by really fast and I'm even starting to feel almost as good as I did when I was riding high on my streak.

 

Day 5 completed. Had nocturnal emission last night. Quite busy day work-wise.

 

Check in, it's awesome to read all your comments showing that almost all are still on track and running. Until now it has been quite easy for me with no urges mainly because there was no time for urges (family time and to a lesser extent work).

 

Yup from most of the research and stories i heard, this flatline feeling is very common later on around week 4 onwards, and I hear its common to have it up to 3 times in a 90 day period for some people as well. Very unpleasant but at least there is no PMO urges which is great.

I'm about to sign out.. end of day 6 here! Definitely got some of my mojo back after a very, very difficult first few days for me. I'm going to enjoy the feeling because I know with the highs, there will be lows. Stay safe on the running track guys- a few obstacles ahead!!!

 

The conclusion of the 20th marks the end of day 6. Only 3 full days left until we start on the first double digit day! So far so good. Urges getting a bit stronger. The thoughts that would normally encounter little resitance were successfully overpowered .

 

Hi everyone, thanks for all your posts. Only reading them already fills me with courage and determination.
"Alone, we go faster; but together we go farther". Let's all go farther.
Have a great day!

(6 down, 94 to go).

 

Thank you

 

Can I join?

 

Please count me in, I’m on my 16th day.

 

Well it's about a 1% at a time, then we will get the 100