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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Aug 30, 2017.
Day 1/14 complete. Usually I fail at day 3, 4 or 5 because wet dreams start to return and I have a rock hard morning wood again. Anyone has tips to avoid this? I really, really want to complete it this time after all these failures.
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"When the urge comes everything else will seem pointless except masturbation. It will be hard. This is the true way of testing your mental strength. Overcoming this will make you stronger and happier"
Checking in day 2, I know I'm in for a rough ride. Bring it on!
@2525 Finished the 14 day challenge!!! Day 14/14. Also finished the 7 day challenge before I started this. So could you add me to the Hall of Fame for both.
I'm gonna start the 30 day challenge and the 365 day challenge now!!!! Wish me luck
I slipped. But it's not all doom and gloom. At least it's vanilla.
I think my next target is to get my self to not use porn.
I've already killed one bad habit by deleting my porn stash, but there are a million and one other avenues to get a fix.
Day 5, working today and tomorrow. Small urges this morning, but life takes precedence. No time to think about the urges, so they've more or less disappeared.
Day 4 for me.
I was away from home and it was easy.
Now the difficult begins...
Day 5. Pretty sure I'm flat lining right now.
Day 14/14 ends @2525 , thank God for all this and for you guys, good job u doing in here
Ok so day 9 done, doing o.k., still getting urges but controlling them going to do this
Well done for getting rid of your stash, now you need to set up some form of porn site blocker on all you enabled devices, it's hard but so worth it, keep going don't give in to it...
I'm starting Day 0 today! I relapsed around noon today after not doing it yesterday. My mistake yesterday was giving in to my ruminations and doing a Google search of a P-Sub. Today I gave in completely and PMO'd at work.
I was feeling quite depressed and anxious about this because I let myself down after saying (for the 1000th time, mind you) that I wouldn't use porn any longer.. I was feeling anxious because my gf and I have had some intimacy issues lately related directly to this and we made up yesterday and I'm anxious that she may want to have sex and I would not be able to maintain an erection. It was distressing me and distracting me from my job.
I was aware of this. I was aware of my thoughts and just allowed them to come and go and decided to no longer pay them any mind.. they aren't productive or meaningful thoughts. This is mindfulness.
So I'm starting over.. "14 days", here I come you sexy son of a beotch.
If I make friends with my urges, then I'm less likely to push them away, which means I'm less likely to PMO to try to get rid of them.
Day 2/14. Feeling like a rock!
Day 11 done, on to day 12 when I wake up, hopefully a better day
Day 5/14. People I want to ask you something.
It is a little embarrassing, but actually I want to know if someone knows about how to control the erections in inappropriate situations, for example, last time I was with my partner, I barely hug her and I couldn't control my erections, in my mind I'm not thinking in something sexual, I just hug her... but I tried to breath and keep the calm, because I literally just hug her when we lay in bed, but nothing like touch her or anything, it bothers me that I can't be with her in peace... do someone know what can I do?
i havent checked in for 5 days. im done with this challenge. yaay me! @2525