14 y/o Newbie here

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nickster_Trickster, May 18, 2020.

  1. Nickster_Trickster

    Nickster_Trickster New Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I am new to NoFap. I am 14 year old boy and have been masturbating since I was 11 but i started watching porn when I was 6. Yeah, 6. The impact porn has had on me since i started masturbating is outrageous. My addiction has gotten so bad that by 13 I started to jack off in class. Luckily I had a strategy of masturbating through my pants. I have ADHD so impulsivity has got the better of me at those times. So if you asked yourself, why doesn't he just go to the bathroom and wack it, then there is your answer.

    I chose to quit porn because I think I already have social anxiety and I think watching porn has made it harder for me to talk to other people especially girls without making dirty joke. And when I try to have a normal conversation with someone I always have to make a dirty joke. Long story short, it has restricted me from having a normal social life.

    This is day 0 for me. But I have already jerked off today so day 1 starts tomorrow.
     
  2. Bilal u can do it

    Bilal u can do it New Fapstronaut

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    You bro, same I'm going to start tomorrow omg, it's going to be a world War 3 in my mind lol, well good luck ✊
     
  3. xavierRodge

    xavierRodge Fapstronaut

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    Welcome Nickster,

    Great courage coming on here and congrats on reaching out. Good luck!

    It sounds like you're definitely on the right track trying to kick the habit. If you've been exposed to porn from that young age you might want to try to find another healthy acitivity to substitute for it. Something you can fall back on when the cravings get strong. Sport? Music? Social work? Tai Chi? Really start to identify yourself strongly with something else.

    Just my naive opinion!
     
  4. Lamboskovich

    Lamboskovich Fapstronaut

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    Nickster, it’s great to have you here!
    Thank you for sharing a bit about your journey and how porn has impacted your life.

    Making the choice to quit is the first step to transform your life. You got this!
     
  5. User14

    User14 Fapstronaut

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    Hi bro I'm facing the similar problem like you....
    Today is my first day so let's see
     
  6. Farzium

    Farzium Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the community! Im glad you have decided to join us.
     
  7. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!)/
    About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active onyour profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     

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