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15 and Ready to Take My Life Back (My last Day Zero)

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by SpiritOfLiberation, May 4, 2020.

  1. May 4, 2020 #1
    SpiritOfLiberation

    SpiritOfLiberation Fapstronaut

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    I'm very excited to be part of this community. I am ready to say now, because I have made this account, that I am dedicated to being a better person than I was for the past 3 years.

    It all started late 2016. I was an innocent 12 year old who had the inevitable mishap of finding pornography. At first, I was disgusted, a normal reaction, but in a matter of minutes, my curiosity overtook me. Then in a matter of a four months (2017) I noticed that I watched a lot of it, of course, I was able to shake it off until I noticed how distant I was getting. I used to be quite social, charismatic, relaxed, just someone people would want to hang out with, hell I was even a bit attractive. I also had a fair amount of self discipline, I was aspiring to play football, working out with consistency.

    Fast forward to now. As I reflect, I notice how much of the opposite I am, compared to my former self. I fear being alone, yet I isolate myself in this illusion of comfort via PMO. I fear failure in the classroom, yet I don't push myself to pass with high marks. I fear failure in sports, yet I don't take the opportunity of this lock down to work out. I do not blame these consequences on porn, rather I take my mindset into accountability.

    I know this is a somewhat lengthy post, but please post any questions, greetings, advises, etc. that you have. Hopefully, I can post as often as every day, for motivation, for advice, for conversation and learning. Like I said, I am very humbled and excited to be part of this community.
     
    SpiritOfLiberation, May 4, 2020
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  2. May 4, 2020 #2
    Musty man

    Musty man New Fapstronaut

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    Stay strong, you are lucky you find out nofap on this early years
     
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  3. May 4, 2020 #3
    SpiritOfLiberation

    SpiritOfLiberation Fapstronaut

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    This is definitely a blessing to find nofap this early.
     
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  4. May 5, 2020 #4
    | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community :) great you found this at such a young age props to you brother. Wish you all the best on your journey. Anything we can assist you with let us know
     
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  5. May 5, 2020 #5
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    Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!)/
    About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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