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15 days in and seeing results

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Chazz1111, Nov 27, 2020.

  1. Chazz1111

    Chazz1111 Fapstronaut

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    So I started NoFap about 15 days ago because I personally rate myself and know that I’d be able to pull someone but just have (or had) no sexual attraction to people at all as porn since about 12 had led me to acquire various fetishes and only watch porn for that. I’m 15 days in and I will make more posts about how I feel as I 100% will not relapse. However I just saw a meme with someone on Facebook and fuck me did it make me horny like wow more than I had ever been even looking at real porn
     
  2. DayOne44

    DayOne44 Fapstronaut

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    @Chazz1111

    There are a couple things here which you seem to realize, but they still may need to be pointed out more directly.

    After 15 days, you will be horny as hell. You have 15 days of sexual energy stored, and your brain is searching for outlets.

    That is why even the smallest image or glimpse of skin will excite you.

    The first thing we must understand and accept is that horniness is natural.

    All of the people here on this planet arrived because males and females got horny.

    Many of us fap, not just because of addiction, but because of horniness.

    Our problem is to accept that sexual tension without looking for some depleting way to release it.

    The challenge is to just be horny without doing anything about it.


    You say you have had no sexual attractions because of your porn fetishes.

    That is understandable.

    You were never horny and sexually attracted to real people because you were always blowing your energy with porn.

    Now, horniness is a new experience.

    You are sensitive now to small sexual images and no longer need extreme porn stimulation to become aroused.

    This is new for you, and that may make dealing with natural horniness more difficult at first and a little confusing.

    Again, horniness is the natural state of man, and our challenge is to simply be horny and not think we always must relieve that.


    Part of the title of your thread is "seeing results."

    That is what counts!

    Getting horny is one of those results.

    We don't want to lose our results because of a little frustration.

    With results, we see that all this is true and work to build on those.
     
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  3. Jtstill423

    Jtstill423 Fapstronaut

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    You're always gonna feel some kind of horniness if you go long periods of time without masturbation. Fantasies will be common, but you need to not let your mind wander, because that will surely go to a relaspe.
     
  4. Chazz1111

    Chazz1111 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah thanks guys, my end goal is to feel strongly for another person so to get into an actual relationship and I just pray to god that that happens because at the minute I just feel almost blind or numb to human interaction
     

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