15 year olds and teens, get in here. Lifestyle is more important than genetics usually

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by goodnice 2.0, Jun 13, 2021.

  1. @Moatasem @Always Keep Going
    They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so I hope the following illustration imprints in your mind forever the very two different paths you can take as a 15 year old boy. Self abuse, btw, used to be a synonym for masturbation

    I have found by examining thousands of people that lifestyle, what you do to your body, is more important than genetics in influencing how you develop physically mentally and emotionally (unless you have some genetic disease or something like dwarfism)
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  2. Always Keep Going

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    Here, self-abuse may even span to anything pandering/distracting from the process of creating an essential equanimity. That would entail, for instance, prurient thoughts or TV. Perhaps this could serve more as a "group-chat" between us, if that is something you are willing to commit to.
     
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  3. Always Keep Going

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    I feel as if a degree of accountability and logging would be conducive for me, perhaps even I could take away some general knowledge from an older folk such as you with sagacity on the topic of wellbeing and mindfulness.
     
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    There's a mere thing I'm terrified of, I think and I've thought about this countless times, because I'm scared it would be my fate.
    "Vice & Degeneracy"
    I have a foot fetish for almost 5 years now, I'm afraid it would degenerate and turn into a reality since I'm literally addicted to dominatrix type content.
     
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    That's profusely relatable, I lose my composure a lot, thanks to porn.
     
  6. iwillrecover28110

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    Bro i’m 15 i was edging and developed ED i have been 3 months clean of porn hoping to go longer and hopefully be cured of my ED problem i developed due to edging i will fix myself up and this helped me realized how much i was destroying myself I had low energy I was so lazy I lost my fire to pursue my dreams cause of porn but no more i will recover from this and be normal again
     
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  7. IGY

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    This is the most common fetish among humans (not specifically addicts of porn). It is not necessarily negative or anything you need to recover from. With a consenting partner, it can become part of your sex life. I am not saying that because I have this fetish. :rolleyes: I can't stand feet! :p
     
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    I fiercely long to know the elixir. How did you do it buddy? I've been trying different techniques and methodologies, and for some reason, they seem to go haywire once I try them, I've tried putting a cessation to porn for roughly 2/3 years, and I still haven't quit.
     
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    I somewhat concur with that, foot fetishes are widespread, but that doesn't make it acceptable, and I don't think we should condone it if it has ramifications for us as human beings, for me, I invariably attribute it to low-life degenerates. Just go on Google and type on the search bar "Foot Fetish and Crimes.", you're going to be catapulted into a realm of countless people with heinous vices that include their foot fetish, the truth will be unleashed, and you'll know that foot fetish isn't something to be engoodened.
     
  10. iwillrecover28110

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    Man idk i just stopped the thought of having sexual problems is enough for me to drop porn forever
     
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    Well said. Doing what you hate is the worst form of effrontery since it is to ourselves. That being said, I am never going back to PMO. I will live a healthier life of wisdom and pride. Abnegating that which takes from me is on the same level as committing to something that grows me.
     
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    That was the motive, I don't get why it doesn't seem to work with me, but if you actually quit because of that, kudos man! This exemplifies bravery and the audacity to say no to porn.
     
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    I think people often don't quit because they don't find something as compelling as what porn endows you with. For instance, a vision of what our life would look like if we quit porn that's in harmony with who we are right now may help catalyze our response whenever a sexual thought comes up in our head and we say no to it. I didn't quit porn now, and I don't think I'm going to quit until I fully become a mature adult, but I'm still trying, and right now at the moment, problems still resurface and I get anxiety when I look at certain people, I use my life in a productive way sometimes, but I still feel like I'm forging nil effort due to the fact I'm worse than academia than I was prior to discovering porn, I'm still hedonistic and porn is starting to encroach my life in a negative way. Abnegation of alluring material that renders you immense amounts of irresponsible pleasure takes humongous balls and a fortified emotional and mental state especially if you have plights and stresses in other facets of your life that make you incessantly relapse and use porn as a coping mechanism.
     
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    Interesting point you make. I won't do the Google search in case something triggering pops up, but it is food for thought.
     
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    man just because some asshole commit crimes and happen to enjoy the foot of a woman doesn't mean anything other than they are scoundrels. Just think if we stopped enjoying anything a murderer also happen to enjoy where would that leave us. Anyways there are millions of people watching porn many more liking feet but how many of these are going to commit heinous crimes? the stats alone might encourage more people to enjoy feet i think.
     
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