180 DAY CHALLENGE: EXTREME MODE

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Daily check-in. On day 61.

 

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Daily check-in. On day 62.

 

Daily check-in. On day 63.

 

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I know the feeling. That was why I joined this challenge in addition to the other challenge. I decided to join this challenge with additional rules:
* No sexual activities whatsoever except with my wife
* No sexual fantasies when I’m awake. I must stop all fantasies asap
* No nocturnal emission
* No dreams (that I remember) about watching porn when I’m asleep.
* Sexual fantasies that does not include watching porn is OK when I’m asleep

This together with a rule from the habit changer challenge: "After I get a thought in my head that I don't want there, I will extend my peripheral thoughts by taking in external impressions from the environment." gives me the kind of armour I need: as soon as I start to think about something I don't want / shall not think about, I quickly scan the place I'm in to get something else to think about as quickly as possible. That said, all fantasies are stopped asap in this way and it works very good.

 

In my opinion, everything that is allowed if you remove the additional rules I have added is edging in one way or another, so yes I totally agree. We could of course spinn off another challenge with the additional rules but for me it works equally well to just modify the challenge a bit. Feel free to do the same but if you want to create a more extreme challenge I will most certainly join you

 

Daily check-in. On day 64.

 

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Daily check-in. On day 65.

 

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Daily check-in. On day 66.