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19 Year Old NO NUT NOVEMBER 2019 [SEMEN RETENTION]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by YoungPiccolo, Jan 1, 2019.

  1. Someone B

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    Ok guys we're all at day 0 again, don't know how you see your addiction of pmo (for me, porn is a cliff) but imagine it, and then see you overcome this addiction. I know it's just word but we have to try and try and try again and again until we reach a point we can say "before I was addict to porn".
     
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  2. patd

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    Just read about guy who were fighting with drug addiction. He decribed that one situation when he heard that some girl want to lose weight. He wished to have that easy rype of problem. I know that it may seem like goving up PMO is like changing the world but guys other people have bigger problems. Come on you can fight it! It's just your mind. Maybe one year is too much for your minds? Let's try with a week than push yourself for two than month etc. I can do such a good job so do you.
     
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  3. niceguy97

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    Im just takin it one day at a time, maybe when I reach a week, Ill take it a week at a time
     
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  4. PeterBE

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    Still going strong. Listening to the decision making chapter in think and grow rich
     
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  5. niceguy97

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    can't do that either....



    Did any of y'all give up technology, Im considering this now
     
  6. patd

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    @niceguy97 I think you can try it for at least 2 weeks. You will see a big difference. This type of detox works. I did it last summer. I felt pretty good, almost no urges. It's important to keep distance from social medias. You know those Instagram pretties...2 weeks only sounds long, so go for it. I have my fingers crossed for your success. Find this inside motivation to fight addiction! Sth what are you resigning from, because of that bad habit
     
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  7. Someone B

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    I don't think technology is the problem, it's more our reaction when we are "in need" that make us do bad thing.
    Don't blame you dude huh, but think about this : a grocery store owner who sell cigarettes (or porn magazines, I don't know) imagine that someone won't go anymore in is growcery because he don't want to be tempted to buy porn (or cigarettes) anymore... seriously there are useful things in this grocery and there are bad things too. We are the ones that choose what we want in this grocery.
    Grocery is internet in this analogy
     
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  8. Someone B

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    Yesterday I went out with some friends to drink all around a table, no special reason, we just wanted to be together. There were some girls too, no one of them had clothing for teasing, or maybe just one but it was saturday night so (we weren't in a club but nice clothing were required). And I was surprising by myself because the girl who wearing a little teasing clothe, well it was clearly a pleasure for the eyes AND I haven't think about porn thoughts or wanted to do something bad with her; it was more like : I was discussing with a dude and then (you know this, eyes catching) wow, boobs, sweet view... Nevermind I was saying to you that". I haven't think about porn in a normal situation in life, it was just nice to see and that's all.

    I'm on my way for day 3, I haven't been here for my 2 first days because it was more days that count for me in my porn reboot that +2 more days on day counter
    Hope you're still fighting your demons guys, and if you have just fall when you read this, I won't say that's good but it's the better moment to still fighting. If you're in a streak that in consequent or starting to be consequent : don't doubt, what you do it worth it.
     
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  9. niceguy97

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    hermano idk how you come up with these analogies, but you're nailing them, honestly. Mind blowing.

    The day I wanted to go without tech, I get assigned a lot of stuff on it, so im just gonna have to make use of the useful stuff and stay away from the unwanted
     
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  10. niceguy97

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    I think imma try it in summer too, honestly too many things in school require me to use tech (social medias, Im kinda already doing it), so it'd be hard to stay away from tech while in school
     
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  11. Someone B

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    Thanks dude, honestly it came like that, don't know I like analogy and well maybe I have good inspiration to make some ^^
    Yeah that's it we have to just use the necessary, think like that and porn will go away.
     
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  12. niceguy97

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    By the end of today, it'd be my second day back on track, it's been going pretty well so far, which I'm really glad about; played some sports and I've generally been happy for the past two days.

    Hope y'all have had good days too, and KEEP ON GOING (@patd awesome streak btw, good job :3)
     
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  13. patd

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    @niceguy97 good to hear that you going on a correct track and thanks, it means a lot for me. Your words are building my mentality :D It' s a really good strike for me because I broke addiction which has been lasting since last summer. Also, I have to confess that I used to PMO for like 4 years with breaks. This break will be forever I think because I changed a lot mentally. Here at this forum I am annonymous, but saying some things changed a lot of my perception. Thanks to you friends!
     
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  14. PeterBE

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    Day 4 or 5, i signed my fixed contract yesterday and went to a copy center to bundle up 3 books (1 about the paleo diet, 1 about monk mode https://boldanddetermined.com/monk-...RnqZAjunKUaAAcTYXTo6s3HsTX6rCKhxYVhdYOygUParM & 1 with testimonials of 1000's of guys doing nofap & being changed)

    basicly the last book is a motivator for me in case i struggle with urges so i'll be reading those and grow stronger.
    this year will be insane if i combine nofap with monkmode and my network marketing business but alas, we will find it out in 10 months and we have to take it 1 step at a time.
     
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  15. niceguy97

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    Relapse again...... a situation from a few days ago had been on my mind and constantly increasing my anger, at least thats the excuse/trigger that i can think of
     
  16. patd

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    @niceguy97 that's not the excuse. There doesn't exist sth like an excuse for our wrong behaviour. Improve, this time you have to achieve longer strike. Change mentality. Be positive and don' t let emotions to control yourself. You can be better.
    Look for inside change. Set boundaries that you will never overstepp. Make way out from urges. It can be writed down your history of no fapping. I mean kind of diary that you will read in any urge. No one want to break achievement that actually exist. Word on papper will help you judge yourself and see a bigger picture.
    Start again, I'm waiting to see your 90 days at May 15 this year!
     
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  17. Someone B

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    Hi guys, @YoungPiccolo long time no see you here, maybe you make a "stay away from internet" .
    I'm starting to be really busy now with my 2nd semester who start so don't know if I can go back here regulary. At least I'll try everytime I'll feel weird or think about letting myself go.
    Continue your streak guys
     
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  18. Someone B

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    Don't try to search for a reason, you fail that unfair. Just get back on road dude. Don't think about what you did, now think about what you want to do. Excuses are for people who don't accept their fail... I can be like that too so I can understand you. But try to accept that you fail, maybe a lot a "reasons" make you feel weird and you forgot what you're fighting for. Nevermind now think about what you'll do and what you do now (if you don't sleep XD ).
    Oh and sorry but no analogy for this time ^^, maybe when I'll come back who knows.
     
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  19. YoungPiccolo

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    How many times will you relapse before enough is enough!
     
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  20. niceguy97

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    Shi ILY guys XD

    IM TRYING
    and imma try even harder. Gonna strive for that 90 day goal

    IK its a pitiful excuse, specially when I look back at it, it was such an irrelevant thing.

    But I honestly feel more motivated after a few days off, and unlike last weekend, I didn't relapse this weekend.

    Im gonna write some stuff down to help me out when I'm in a bad spot, I hope that it'll help.

    Thx for being an awesome bunch of ppl <3
     
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