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19yo virgin suffering from PIED

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Eagle17, Nov 20, 2018.

  1. Eagle17

    Eagle17 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, i decided to start nofap around January this year, since then i have had a number of short streaks (no longer than 30 days). I decided to begin nofap after two failed attempts at penetrative sex and a few failed attempts at oral sex. In all cases i was initially aroused by the girl i was with, but lost my erection quickly once oral or intercourse was attempted. I began watching porn and masturbating to internet porn at around age 8, on an average of once or twice a day. During my early teens (13-16) i had some intimate experiences with girls at my school, these were mostly kissing occasionally attempting oral sex but never succeeded on orgasming from this. After my recent episodes of PIED this year i am now anxious that my mind is not at all wired for real women but only to pornography. Last week a girl who i am seeing at the moment attempted to have sex with me and after an initial 70% erection i went flaccid before i could penetrate, this was incredibly frustrating and really made me worry. I have been on a streak for 4 weeks but only decided to make an account today. Anyone who is experiencing or has recovered from PIED, especially virgins, any advice or tips is very welcome.
     
  2. Hey man, I've had similar experiences as you--not finding actual sex as arousing and stimulating as porn--and, although I haven't had sex during any of my previous streaks, I know that I'm much more easily stimulated after a couple months of abstinence and can only imagine that sex would be much more satisfying too.
     
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  3. Eagle17

    Eagle17 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey, thanks for the reply. Thats what I’m hoping will be the case with me, but im aware that this can be a long process so im trying to remain patient
     
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  4. It probably will be long, but it won't be forever. Patience is critical. But you're only 19, and you've got decades and decades of satisfying sex ahead of you. You've got the whole world to gain, man. Just do it one day at a time.
     
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