Jitters, Butterflies & Overthinking: Met this girl about a month ago on OKCupid & I'm actually digging her! Of course she's beautiful, smart & has a sense of humor... But she's a bit reserved then the women I'm use to talking to. Usually I can turn my charm on & melt a girl out of her panties with a drink of course. But she seems distant & cautious, which I respect, but 4 weeks before our first date? Now that the moment is here, I'm PANICKING I stressed cause I want to make a great first impression. Overthinking has me worried & flustered! Advice is welcomed!?!?