20 male looking for mutual accountability.

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  1. liamjonesjacob

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    guys ............. i relapsed again :( :( :( yesterday evening .......... :(
    day 0
     
  2. liamjonesjacob

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    guys plz help me stay motivated about nofap ......... keep posting its benefits ..... HELP me plzzzz :(
     
  3. liamjonesjacob

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    i m the only one who is unable to control .
    u people have reached day 4,5 .. thats gr8 , keep going .
    what are the changes that u people are observing in yourselves ?
     
  4. liamjonesjacob

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    guys plz try to be active here . it will help everybody , especially me . plz . -_-
     
  5. Fazetension

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    The benifits so far:
    1) MORE TIME ON MY HANDS
    I used to PMO at night and in the morning and generally any time I was feeling tired. I definitely have urges but when I do I either get out of bed, come on here or do something very different to distract me. Also I am very conscious about what I fantasize in my head, I try not to entertain it at all because it’s too tempting.

    I remind myself of the competition we have with each other and also that I’m proving something to myself. I don’t let myself make excuses because I want to prove I can go 90 without PMO.

    But really I’m less than a week into it and I have and continue to have very strong urges about M. I think I have to try it longer to fully feel the effects.


    May I ask, what do you think caused the relapse?
     
  6. So I'm working on day 3...
    Benefits for me have been an increase in energy levels, which is especially important to me because I'm an athlete. Low energy levels actually what really Kickstarted my motivation for NoFap. I feel less sluggish when awake.
    During the day yesterday, is struggled with urges, but I fought them by always doing something. I played video games, read a book, and then worked out in the evening. I got so tired from the full day that I fell asleep rather easily.
    So basically, just stay insanely busy with other stuff...
    I can now use how good I felt working out yesterday as motivation to continue.
     
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  7. liamjonesjacob

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    guyz , very sorry , i faped again while bathing today in the afternoon .......... i promise myself that i will not use PMO .................. :(
    i have an exam day after tomorrow of 6 hours . so i m busy with my exam prep . this would help me abstain frm PMO :)
     
  8. Fazetension

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    Hey guys just checking in.
    Had a really difficult time falling asleep yesterday night. It’s when I’m falling asleep that I have the strongest urges. I eventually fell asleep to an audio book but it took over 2 hours. Anyway feeling pretty good because I didn’t give into my urges.
     
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  9. liamjonesjacob

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    thats awesome , @Fazetension
    u people are inspiring ............ :0
     
  10. liamjonesjacob

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    i just cant control , actually . but now , i will . wait and watch . (and motivate me plz)
     
  11. liamjonesjacob

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    day 1 completed ..... yipee
    finally , day 1 was completed . as already told , i relapsed yesterday while bathing (whlie cleaning my private parts with soap , lol ) . i felt tired yesterday after my tasty lunch . i was feeling restless . i didnt want to do anything . today i woke up with a 'not so strong morning wood' . i didnt try to orgasm , as i m on ' no pmO ' . today also while bathing , i had urges , my pe*** got erect and just wanted to relapse , but i managed to control . guys , just tell me one thing , u people clean your private parts with soap ? or just with water ? (wierd ques , i know , but plz reply to it ). i actually stroke my penis with soap while cleaning it , and that strokes makes the situation uncontrollable(precum also comes out) . Now , i have decided that i will clean it with water only and not soap .
    Right now, at 2pm , i m alone at home . usually , when i m alone at home , i switch to incognito mode and start browsing porn videos one after another , and after about 20-30min , i ejaculate . and now , while i m alone , i m typing this . it feels great . i feel more mature after completeing day 1 .
    i m trying my best to keep myself busy with tomorrows test . i have lots to prepare . 100+ chapters are there for tomorrows exam .
    wish me luck
     
  12. Sorry guys for not being there. I was actually worst yesterday. I did not relapse to pmo.
    But i binge watched youtube. rather than imporving my reward system, i am messing it. I don't want it to happen again.
    Does anyone else feel the same btw?
    @Clever Idiot @time2quit18 @Fazetension how are you guys doing?
     
  13. Fazetension

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    I downloaded a site blocker on my phone and iPad that blocks YouTube Twitter porn websites and whatever site you want to not spend time on. So every time I try to go to YouTube and it doesn’t load then I remember why I blocked it in the first place.
    Hope that helps.
     
  14. Fazetension

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    Last night I had the strongest urges so far while laying in bed trying to fall asleep. I ended up listening to an audiobook to fall asleep. Was tough.
     
  15. Hey mate! hope you are doing well! I could help you definetly and I am around the same age can't reveal on such forums due to privacy concerns but sure i was looking for an AP as well! Ping me on a conversation if you need help
     
  16. @Clever Idiot definately an improvement, but remember that this still indicates that urges still have control over you.
    @King TChala#WakandaForever welcome!! Our dicussions will be done on this thread.
     
  17. Hey @Fazetension @Clever Idiot how are you guys?
    10 days wow!! I can't believe it. The best way to get past flatline is to be really really busy.
     
  18. Hey @Clever Idiot @Fazetension how are you? Please be active.
    I am getting few urges but need to control it. I have a 100 day challenge!!
    11 days over Yay!!!
     

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