200 + days of NoFap Lifestyle plus 2 long attraction stories & opinions

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by FappieChan, Oct 18, 2019.

  1. FappieChan

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    Whats up everyone? I am back to update you guys since my last post from late last month. My last time fapping or watching porn was in the latter part of February earlier this year so I'm at least over 200 days living the NoFap lifestyle. Everything is still going great , I feel like everyday has been something different. Specifically I want to tell you about 2 attraction stories that both just happened last night within 3 hours of each other.

    So me and a few of my classmates (I am in grad school) went to the library to have a study session yesterday. As we're walking past the computers to get to the study tables there are two girls looking over their computers at us. It turns out one of the people in my study group knows them so me an him go over and talk to them. Once we're about to leave to keep heading towards the tables I jokingly yell to one of the girls "You don't know me" laughing while I say it and she said " Well I can get to know you :)" In a flirty voice with all her teeth showing. It caught me a little off guard but clearly this was a lob to me and I was not about to drop the ball. I go back over , flirt with her for a while, convince her to cook me alfredo (lol) get her number and give her a hug goodbye.

    Now we finally make it over to the study tables and another one of my study mates sees a girl he has been trying to get at all semester talking with a friend and goes over to talk to her, lets call her Miya and her friend is Brianna. So he talks to Miya and Brianna for a bit while the rest of us are at the table across the library studying. My classmate comes over and tells me where he met Miya and how they're doing etc, just usual small talk. 20 minutes later Miya texts him saying that Brianna broke up with her boyfriend last week and she needed someone cute to take her mind off of the whole situation. My classmate texts back saying who did Brianna have in mind? Miya replied saying "Brianna wants the guy sitting next to you in the Outkast shirt with the beard!" He showed me the texts and I was surprised lmao She was talking about me. Mind you, I have not been up close to this girl yet, we are probably about 80-90 feet away from them so she has not seen me up close yet and I have not seen her up close. About 2 hours or so go by and everyone leaves the study table except for me because I am really trying to kill this Advanced Biomechanics test we have coming up. Out the corner of my eye, I see Brianna get up and start walking towards me. I thought this was interesting so I said I'll wait to see what she does. She walked past me without looking at me, kept walking towards the library entrance BUT she ducked behind the book cases LOL. Then I kid you not, less than 5 seconds later she comes from behind the book cases and starts walking towards me again without looking at me.I said something flirty to her and she smiled then I got her number. As soon as I got her number, coincidentally, the first girl who's number I had gotten texts me saying " WYD? :) " haha, interesting night.

    Now alot of people say the attraction is because of Nofap. After doing this for so long, I think that is right and wrong at the same time. I believe it is indirectly because of nofap. Let me explain. I don't believe any woman can immediately tell if you've been holding your semen in but the effects of holding said semen in and not constantly fapping are huge factors in attraction. Like how not fapping raises your test levels and then normalizes them which leads to , boldness, deeper voice , more assertiveness, increased muscle mass and more facial hair which are all benefits I have experienced AND are all things that most women find attractive. Not to mention a masculine presence and aura which many girls have complimented me on. I have had girls flat out tell me " You're such a man" with big smiles. All the things that make us men start to shine brightly. I think, those things subconsciously make women more attracted to us. These attractions stories have been happening to me at least once or twice per week since February so its not uncommon to me now because it happens so much.

    That's my story guys! I posted this to inspire or just to share my experiences and opinions and not to really draw any conclusions. Let me know what you guys think!
     
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2019
  2. Powerous

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    They can tell subconsciously. Because they know you have good quality sperm built it and you are fertile radiating testosterone and pheromones. There is whole science behind it.
     
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  3. Powerous

    Powerous Fapstronaut

    Women just are intuitively attracted to men with better energy overall. Fapping everyday drains you of vital energy, testosterone and pheromones.
     
  4. FappieChan

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    I've heard it before but as a Biology student I've not been able to find any concrete studies or university scholarly articles that back this up. Any links to studies ?
     
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  5. make_change

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    After 40 days streak I stopped experincing any benifits things slowed down. Urges started to get harder to cope with. I got bored and list the desire to carry on. My brain kept telling me that your not experiencing any new benifts.

    is this normal part of a streak? have you experienced this?
     
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  6. FappieChan

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    I'd say yes and no. For me , all the benefits like better memory, quicker wit, more charismatic, better critical thinking, better sleep are all still there and after a while I stopped thinking of them as benefits and just thought of them as additions to my personality and well being. All of the benefits became so much a part of me that I kind of stopped noticing them. I say once you get to a point, you won't get any new benefits because you're finally getting all the benefits and emotions that just come with being a normal functioning, PMO free human. For me just the emotions , the way people are treating me now, my mindset and mental clarity that have just become so normal to me were motivation to not even fight the urges, but to let an urge come, notice it but at the same time deal with it and let it pass without giving in to it.
     
  7. athlean

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    wow that is amazing to hear!! very motivational..

    These kind of things happen when you were PMO'ing?
     
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  8. Deepak678

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    200+ days is great.. what is your age bro. ? And how frequent you used to masturbate before this nofap thing started
     
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  9. 4eyedfox

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    Yes read posts about flatline and how to deal with it
     
  10. FappieChan

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    I'm 23 and back when I was masturbating , I'd do it atleast once everyday and sometimes binge 3-4x in a day.
     
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  11. FappieChan

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    Thanks and no, none of this stuff was happening while I was PMOing. I have met more people in the last 200+ days of living the nofap lifestyle than I had in the year and a half before that. More people are striking up conversations with me out of nowhere and coming up to me now. It's like my energy is radiating anywhere I go and everyone can tell.
     
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  12. athlean

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    so amazing to hear!
     
  13. You_ll_succed_for_sure

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    Used my travel time machine, and I discorved this:

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  14. Spriritofawarrior

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    Did you ever have a flatline? When did the benefits come??
     
  15. Sakhi

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    How was your first and second week of no pmo, and what days were the hardest, and did you start cold turkey or weaning method??? I want to stop masturbation forever. but I try weaning method and then relapse over and over. Help me how to stop it please.. Im really tired of doing it. Besides i cannot get marry at the moment to have a sexual partner... im 25 ... when I see medical websites and the doctors saying masturbation is healthy l, that leads me back to masturbating. Im 25 but look like 35 years old men..plz help
     
  16. FappieChan

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    I did have a flatline that lasted a couple of weeks. As far as when the benefits came, after a week my sleep started to get better, after 3ish weeks my anxiety lessened and my mental clarity increased. Most benefits came by 45 days and just got better as time went on. Remember everyone's journey is different. I went hard mode and rewired with girls while I was doing NoFap which brings benefits quicker and lets my brain heal more than someone going on easy mode and watching p subs.
     
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  17. FappieChan

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    I stopped cold turkey. I realized there are some people who can PMO once in a while without it hugely effecting their life but I have an addictive personality in most things I do so I stopped completely. Forget what the websites are saying and focus on what you feel. I personally feel better mentally and physically when I stopped masturbating and watching porn. Not only that my life in general started going in a more positive direction. When I was at my lowest point , deep in PMO I took out a piece of paper and literally wrote out a chart with the pros and cons of PMOing. The only two pros were : Temporary pleasure and Temporary escape from my real life problems. But there were 15 cons. Do that for yourself and look at the paper whenever you want to relapse. Me and you are both in our mid 20's, a time thats supposed to be the prime of our lives , filled with love, adventure, imagination and passion. Does PMO fit into your prime years? 5 years from now when you turn 30, do you want to look back on the second half of your 20's with feelings of fulfillment or regret ??? Choose fulfillment, Bury that old PMO version of yourself and don't look back.
    If you need any more help feel free to message me and we'll have a conversation!
     
  18. Craig365

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    Hey im 21 and share similar problems except i haven't had the success you had. My biggest streak is 5 days. I feel like i need some advice help or some support system. I think i have sever PIED.. it makes me question if i have a physical or psychological problem but truth is i haven't made it past 5 days in a decade.. And this includes hours at a time. I myself have an addicting personality where i get too much into something like i over analyze everything in daily life.
     
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  19. RUBASHOV

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    Impressing!
     
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  20. FappieChan

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    I suffered from PIED afew years ago too when I was around 19-20 years old. Its afew things that helped me recover from this.

    1. Cutting out Porn and Porn subsitutes completely. The more you get turned on by pixels on your sceen, the stronger those arousal pathways of artificial stimulation grow. So no browsing that sexy instagram models pictures or anything that you know will give you that rush.

    2. Stop fantasizing. Fantasizing will lead to a relapse in most scenarios. It's the thought in the mind that triggers everything else. Dont fight it but when those fantasizing thoughts pop up in your mind, notice them, and say to yourself " This isn't good for me, I won't do that." Then go occupy your mind and time with something else.

    3. Rewire with real girls. This is probably the most important one. Those natural pathways of arousal need to be strengthened again. This does not mean it has to be sex though. It can be intimate hugging, kissing, touching, anything that you know should get you aroused. NOW one hard part about this is that rewiring with real girls can cause you to fantasize about them. I struggled with this early. There will be alot of times you"ll have to tell yourself "This isn't good for me, I won't fantasize." MY best advice on that is to fantasize your life success instead of you r sexual success. Imagine vivid scenes of where you want to be in life 5-10 years from now.

    I remember a butt naked girl could'nt get me hard because I had such sever PIED. After about 4-5 months of doing the things above, I couldn't even talk to a fully clothed girl without my big man down stairs standing at attention involuntarily (lol). Just stay disciplined and always always remind yourself where you want to be, why you want to be there, and how PMO will not get you there. You're only a couple years younger than me with so much life ahead of you. Older guys in their 40's and 50's who are still PMO addicts would KILL to turn back time and quit this crazy addiction. I've been exactly where you are man and I've been on the brighter side too. Life is so so great and precious now, but I couldn't see it back then through the Porn fog....don't you want to see clearly? Blow that fog away! Be who you're supposed to be ! I have faith in you brother. I hope this helped you, if you have anything else or need to talk shoot me a message!
     
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