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21 years old guy beats Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by SullivanKyle, Nov 13, 2018.

  1. SullivanKyle

    SullivanKyle Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys I'm gonna talk about my succes story with ED. I hope this post don't be a trigger.

    That was the reason I started nofap. I was 21yo dating a 31yo woman that I met on the internet. We've been on online dating for about 2 months and we dicided to meet each other in real life. Her aunt had an apartment that she didn't use anymore so we decided to stay there for few days. In that time I used to PMO every single day. I had no idea that PMO could have impact on my sexual life. Well, I admit I was nervous. I was a 21 virgin and addicted to PMO.

    As soon as we entered the apartment we look each other and we went to the bed. Now she was naked and I was dead inside. I had no emotion, no idea what I was doing and my only reaction was to get naked either. I couldn't get hard. I remember all those porn videos I watched just were washed from my mind. I didn't understand what was happening and at this point I was embarrassed because of of ED and she was okay because she knew I was virgin so she thought that happened because of that. The only thing I could do at that moment was oral sex. And that's what happened during all the day long. We tried hours and hours to make me hard. I remember she had some natural v i a g r a s that probably was used for her ex-boyfriend (I know it's funny and controversial) and I tried all those things and didn't work. She was confused so she said "Don't worry, we have all the entire week to try again". And we spent all that week trying to make me hard. Well, some times it worked but it was really bad and weak. I tried fapping and didn't work neither! I had no idea what was happening.

    So after I got back to my house I entered the bathroom and I fapped. So I was now really confused. I didn't tried to search for a solution because I thought that happened because I was virgin. After some 2 or 3 months (We lived away from each other) we decided to hanging out again. Now I wasn's so afraid and nervous than the first time and I could get a bit hard. The 3rd time we saw each other the same thing happened but now I had an orgasm but throught fapping.

    A funny moment I remember I tried to make a video and as I said I couldn't get hard and when I see us on the screen of my cellphone I got hard. That was the moment I see something making sense. One time she went to my own house and we had sex on my own bed. And guess what? I didn't get hard enough again! So now I was really upset on myself and I finally tried to search for help on the internet.

    I saw a lot of guys talking about ED caused by PMO and I didnt' wanted to believe it. I denied myself to believe untill one day that was the only way to try it. I told her my problem would be PMO and she didn't believe me. She never heard about porn addiction before.

    First time I tried to stay away from PMO for 10 days and guess what? IT WORKED! We were so happy I finally could get really hard and have a real orgasm. That was amazing. One of the best things I ever experienced! She almost cried guys and now she believed that my problem was PMO. The second time that we hanging out after I stopped PMO I got 14 day of nofap. That was even better. I could get hard at any situation and position. I felt so alpha and manly. She saw I was different and sexiest than the other times. She could feel my energy flowing in my body. I felt like an Alpha Greek God.

    And that's how I discovered the nofap community. That happened to me 2 years ago. Now I'm single and still trying to beat PMO. I really hope my success story can help you guys. Peace!
     
  2. g2stop

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    2 years - what has been your longest streak?
     
  3. SullivanKyle

    SullivanKyle Fapstronaut

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    25 days
     
  4. g2stop

    g2stop Fapstronaut

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    Yes I have been trying to quit for a few years, my longest streak was 90. But I just can’t seem to kick the habit
     
  5. g2stop

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    I think that I didn’t think porn subs were that bad and that is the problem
     
  6. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    Well done, I never had a problem with a girl to be hard but porn and fapping are shit anyway. It is just dissolving my brain slowly. My longest streak was 20 days so far and I am trying from January 2018
     
  7. SullivanKyle

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    We have to see the other side. We're years ahead of porn addicted guys that masturbates everyday. Even if we relapse once a while we still rock! Don't be so hard to yourself just because you never got more than 90 days. And actually 90 days is a great streak. Keep going man. Never give up. If you masturbate once 2 or 3 weeks than it's not a habit anymore. I'm not saying that relapse is a good thing. I'm trying to quit PMO for ever. But I'm not being so hard to myself. If you got 90 days before than you can get 90 days again
     
  8. SullivanKyle

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    Yeah that are bad! Anything related to naked girls is bad. My tip is to try monk mode. It's crazy but works. Don't look at girls anymore. If you wanna look at girls the only body part are her EYES. Don't pay attention to girls at the streets or TV, Computer, etc. Another tip is to give up social media like instagram, snapchat, facebook. Focus on anything but not in girls body anymore.
     
  9. SullivanKyle

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    Keep going man! Try the monk mode as I said on the other comment. That is helping me a lot! My longgest streak was 25 days since almost 2 years ago.
     
  10. CH3RRY

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    "We're years ahead of porn addicted guys that masturbates everyday". Yes very true, I keep thinking how everyday I'm distancing from my old habits, someone keeps doing that shit. Their lives are stalling. They're just victims, like we all have been. But honestly I don't understand guys who are way older than me that haven't realized that what they're doing is bad. Also it is very interesting that there are people who relapse after 90 days. I'm currently been on NoFap for around 2 months, and I can safely say I will not relapse. I've been doing this so long, that PMO isn't part of my life in any way anymore. It's just some faded old habit, that doesn't have anything positive to it. I feel like the state that I've reached is the state where you have actually cured yourself from PMO addicition. I guess it just takes a long time for others to achieve this.
     
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  11. SullivanKyle

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    That's very nice man! Keep going I wish you the best!
     
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