21 yo M (Christian) struggling with SSA and Porn addiction

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by fedex15, Apr 26, 2018.

  1. fedex15

    fedex15 New Fapstronaut

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    Bear with me here because I'm new to this. I'm a 21 year old Christian guy who is struggling with SSA (same sex attraction) and a porn addiction. This has caused me to feel sick, depressed, ashamed, and far away from God. I lose sleep and think about it constantly. I want to eventually find a wife and have kids, but I just can't kick this. I can't tell anybody due to fear that they will look at me differently. I've spent my whole life in church and doing missions and people look at me as having it all together, but I am hiding such a big secret. No matter how many times I ask for forgiveness or hear that I am forgiven, I still feel so dark and isolated. I'm looking for a Christian accountability partner who is struggling with the same problem. I need help.
     
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  2. the hulk

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    I am 32 christian male.Im willing to be a ap if you dont mind the age gap
     
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  3. fedex15

    fedex15 New Fapstronaut

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    I just messaged you
     
  4. CarsonRedefined

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    Hey bro, I’m 18 and face the same struggle. I’d be happy to team up if you like
     
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  5. fedex15

    fedex15 New Fapstronaut

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    That would be great man
     
  6. JosCar

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    Hey man, I'm a 30 christian male and I'd love to help you in your struggle
     
  7. GreyEminence

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    Hey man, I’m 28 and have and still am experiencing the same struggles. It’s always a journey and I wish had some awesome wisdom that magically made it all go away but that does seem to exist so I continue to trust in God and let him guide me every second of the day. Happy support you in anyway I can.
     
  8. WaywardSon

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    I’m 22, married, Catholic. I have many of the sameness struggles you do. I’d be happy to help.
     
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  9. Zombro

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    Older than you, but also struggle with same sex attractions and if you would like to connect, then let me know.
     
  10. Decerebrate

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    I was looking for something like this. I think it could be powerful
     
  11. Ferdinand5

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    Hey there Im 21 and I'm struggling the same thing. May I join?
     
  12. Decerebrate

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    I'm not sure how this works. I think a subgroup may be helpful.
     
  13. Zombro

    Zombro Fapstronaut

    New here and have no idea what a subgroup is or how to set it up. Any guidance?
     
  14. Decerebrate

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    IDK Perhaps I will send a new thread and invite you that are interested.
     
  15. sk8terboy123

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    Interested in connecting with the folks here; did you guys connect? Thanks!
     
  16. Decerebrate

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    No. But if you want to send me message on Telegram, I will add you to the group.
     
  17. notoday

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    It's amazing how many of us share the same issues.
    I'm 20, i Love God, he everything to me.
    I'm finding peace in Him and he's teaching me a lot about myself and how to deal with my brokeness.
    I'd love to start a dialog with any of you guys who are interested in connecting.
    Hit me up.
     
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  18. Ram246991

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    I am suffering the same and feeling guilty all the time.need help to overcome this
     
  19. freedomwarrior

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  20. Same here, but the shame probably just makes everything worse. We need to be able to communicate openly with other guys. Need healthy male relationships.
     
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