That's right guys, I just wanted to get this off my chest and tell you how I'm feeling. Y'all are welcome to share and comment anything you want on the matter, please be as honest as possible. I'm 21 years old, never had a girlfriend, never kissed one, they don't seem interested on me. To be honest, I don't know what's wrong with me, I've read a lot of things on the subject and still I cannot find the answer to this problem. I've seek for advice in The Bible and anything yet, guys I've witnessed girls chasing some other boys and going crazy about them... yet no girl has shown interest on me. One day, a girl I knew came to me just to ask me the number of a guy he had just met the day before! (this guy was an acquaintance of me, not a friend I'd say just a random guy I met in the street). Personally, this whole thing of blue/red pill you find on YT and Google doesn't make sense to me. I don't want to become an incel and I fear becoming one as some times I feel resent to girls in general because they hurt my feelings making me feel bad. I know some of you would say I'm complaining and not doing anything to change but I am. Say, it's been 5 months since I started doing exercise. I made myself a homemade dumbbell (12 pounds) and began doing weights, and also doing some calisthenics like push-ups, sit-ups, planks and pull-ups. I've noticed a progress since my back and shoulders have become wider and I also notice progress because some shirts I wear I notice they fit me tight now. The point is that, no matter how much I make effort, things are always the same. There are some things I can't change. The most bothering things that has been haunting me since I was 14 years old is my receding hairline. You see, I don't have bald spots in my scalp nor thinning hair but I have a big receding hairline. I don't notice thinning spots in my temples, just with the pass of the years without even noticing it they became deep and I have a big forehead since birth so you fancy how my head is. Besides from that my hair is dry so it's very hard to style to hide the loss at the temples or at least comb it to the front. It's very unattractive and to be honest, I don't know any girl of my age or at least of my generation (18-22 years old) that would like to be with a guy like me. I don't wanna take hair transplant surgery. I saw the scars it leaves on the scalp and it doesn't guarantee that hair won't fall in the future. Currently I live in the Dominican Republic. I'm white with light brown hair, 1.70 cm (5' 7''). You know here is very hard to find white people. Most girls are ebonies or black and guys are black so that means that girls are used to black men but they get bored of them and they're suppose to seek different people like me yet they don't seem to be interested. I know that my problem is not being attractive or having a pretty face as some would call. Just wanted to get this off my chest and I am talking with my heart and mind, being honest and transparent as possible.