22 y/o and unsure what to do

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  1. WubbyTubby

    WubbyTubby Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    I am new here and not sure how i want to do this. But first some generals about me. I am 22, male, straight and live in germany. I have used porn for basically all my live, can't really remember any time without it. Usually, i use it like 2-3 Times a day. It didn't affect me too bad yet, although i am feeling pretty down after M. The mai reasing for quitting P is mainly because I feel how it affects my mood. The kick after doing it made me feel so much worse after it weared off... My main problem right now is that i don't know if i really want to quit at this point in time. I am currently really working on getting my stuff together: i quitted smoking like a month ago, smoking pot a week ago and im currently losing weight/training. I am afraid, that this is going to be too much. I held up pretty good with everything else, I am just anxious about ruining all the progress on the other things im quitting by overstressing myself. I thought about just quitting P and keep the M. The full programm is out of question, I am in a relationship and kicking Sex is out of question for me.

    Thanks for reading.
     
  2. Marshall 5

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    Welcome! It’s great that you’re already making some healthier changes in your life. I found that quitting P and M for a long time helped me with other things. I had more intensity to put towards exercise and eating well for example. Like you, I did not give up sex, though there were some long stretches without it. Once P is really out of your mind you might find occasional M without P to be more realistic. Or maybe you won’t even be that interested in the idea at that point. Anyway good luck man!
     
  3. You don't need to quit actual sex. Just kick Porn and Masturbation habit out of your life, and you can reap all the benefits of a reboot.
     
  4. Hi and welcome to Nofap. It's great that you're working on so many different things. It takes a lot of courage. Best of luck with everything!
     
  5. Man I feel this post right here. Porn is the worse for me, I’d rather be addicted to weed honestly it has less negative effects on my life overall, although it still does have downsides
     
  6. WubbyTubby

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    Short update after a while. I sticked to it! I haven't had any M since the post, i was very tempted to though. Of course, no P too. Although i stumbled upon one or two pics or vids, i mostly powered through an just clicked away (except for one occaison, although it was a video of me and my gf and i would'nt reaaally consider it P). It feels pretty nice. There is just this one thing: I am so horny all the time, that I constantly look forward to meeting my gf to have sex. Like, its not the only thing i think about but its a big thing. I hope it goes away sometimes.
    Anyway guys, thanks for answering to my post :)
     
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  7. Marshall 5

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    Great work! Stick with it! :)
     
  8. Dude, just stop porn and masturbation for the rest of your live.
     
  9. WubbyTubby

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    Thank you :)
     
  10. WubbyTubby

    WubbyTubby Fapstronaut

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    On porn, i agree absolutely
     
  11. WubbyTubby

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    Thanks alot :)
     

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