22 year old male

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by kayojaiy, Oct 23, 2017.

  1. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    Need help staying committed to being PM free. I have been addicted since I was 13. Its gotten so bad that I have death grip and its affecting my daily life. Looking for someone around my age or older hold me accountable.
     
  2. HacKadi

    HacKadi Fapstronaut

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    Same situation here, 23 and PMOing since 12 or 13. Count with me.
     
  3. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    I realize there are three major things that set me off: rejection from a girl, anything negative happening in my life, and food comas

    Going to try and recognize when I start to feel those ways again. I would love recommendations for substitute stress relievers when I get bogged down like I do.
     
  4. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    Starting over today, will be posting daily.
     
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  5. HacKadi

    HacKadi Fapstronaut

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    Stay strong. Use the panic button, its very helpfull. Good idea, keeping a journal helps to creat self-awareness.
     
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  6. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    I sick of the bs I deal with females. I'm tired of self-medicating with porn, its gotten me nowhere. I want to be in control and master of my own life not females. Today starts a new feat of me learning social dynamics to change up things in my life and get the respect I deserve.
     
  7. HacKadi

    HacKadi Fapstronaut

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    Great to know. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy! It will change your life.
     
  8. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    Day 2 went pretty well. I've developed a routine to keep me occupied and focusing on school has let me not even begin to be tempted. I started reading some psychology books on body language and conversation. I'm changing up the way I interact with people.
     
  9. kayojaiy

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    Forgot to post for Day 3. I was studying for an exam. Keeping myself busy doesn't even leave room for desire to look at porn. I've also decided to not drink for the month of November as I believe it has always been an deterrent for me anytime I have desired to go without PM. No Drink November = NoFap November
     
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  10. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    Took an L on my exam today, and with a girl I tried to talk to. In a bad place, but I'm not going to let that dictate my behavior. Being free from this shit is more important than being temporarily upset.
     
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  11. kayojaiy

    kayojaiy Fapstronaut

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    New day, I let myself slip up too many times over the weekend but renewed motivation and will go forward with the goals I once had. I think focusing on females put me in a position to fail and go back to my old ways. As much as it pains my pride to do this, I think I just need to focus on myself for a while if I want to produce the results I desire for myself.
     
  12. HacKadi

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    Yes, fantasizing or thinking about it led me to relapses. Just kill the thought.
     

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