22M Looking for AP

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Deleted Account, Dec 7, 2020.

  1. Looking for an AP, or basically a sponsor to help me and so I can help them. I've here since August, but that doesn't mean I'm a veteran. Over the last few days I've looked a lot into AA's methodologies, and in the book I'm reading it talks about similar themes. I've come to learn that a lot of these methods, NF or otherwise follow the same themes.

    Enough rambling, but I know a genuine accountability partner would be good for me. Starting on direct DM would be fine, but I'd be interested in exchanging phone numbers or Discord information.

    I've come to terms that I'm powerless to pornography, but that doesn't mean I'm helpless. I've only believed that me and myself alone could change this, but I'm starting to believe that a higher power needs to be there. It sounded crazy to me too and it still does, but I have to ask myself: How's doing it yourself working out for you?

    But besides THAT fun discussion, I play video games, run, do art, and other stuff. Reach out! Thanks.
     
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  2. wuxor

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    What book are you reading?
     
  3. Irrestible by Adam Alter was the first book I read, but I’m reading The Power of Habit now
     
  4. wuxor

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    Nice, I will add that to my reading list. I read The Power of Habit a few years ago, but honestly I don't remember many specifics. It did seem to make a lot of sense.

    I doubt I will be active enough to be an AP at the moment, but we can chat around here if you want.
     
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  5. That's cool man, Irresistible was a really good read and if you liked The Power of Habit I think you'll like it, it's more about the science of behavioral addiction which I found really interesting
     
  6. Chrispl

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    I'll be starting to work through the twelve steps program in 2021, so if You're interested in doing that work too, then we could be sponsors for each other.
    Please let me know what You think.
    I'm also ok with being Your Accountability Partner
     
  7. Trailblazer7

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    We could do an accountability group. I(21M) also need an accountability partner.
     
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  8. Chrispl

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    Accountability group sounds like a good idea.
    Please private message me details on how can we connect to create such group.
     
  9. DonaldDuck15

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    Hey guys, I'm new to this site (28M), and I'm also looking for an AP or group. Can I join?
     
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  10. Chrispl

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    In my opiniom of course.
    I'm little older than you, since I'm 34.
     
  11. Chrispl

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    In my opiniom of course
    I'm little older than you, since I'm 34.
     
  12. TKNPhotos

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    can i also join this group
     
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  13. Count me in guys. I'm willing to join.
     
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  14. Trailblazer7

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    Is there any group chat here on NoFap?
     
  15. Chrispl

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    No, but I can make group chat on telegram/whatsapp/Facebook messenger.
    Just write to me Your contact details in private message, so I can create a group chat.
     
  16. Keepitdown

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    I would love to join the group if possible. im 22 years old and male.
     
  17. Trailblazer7

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    Let’s choose a platform that suits everyone what do you suggest?
     
  18. Chrispl

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    Everyone interested in joining, please choose which platform would You prefer for our group to use?

    My choices to choose from:
    - Facebook messenger
    - whatsapp
    - telegram

    Please vote, so we know on which one to decide on.
     
  19. Hey, glad to see this post got some traction.

    Relapsed today; if you guys made an AP group on something DM me the details. If not, I'll take initiative in making one.
     
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  20. Chrispl

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    You better make one then.
    I don't see any point in waiting.
     

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