Hello All, I've been suffering from PIED, essentially which has been preventing me from having the rock-hard lasting erections I used to enjoy. I haven't PMO'd in 23 days. This weekend I had my first sexual encounter since I undertook this new lifestyle. I met up with a girl I like and we went out for drinks. We finished off a few bottles of wine and had a few shorts, so quite a lot of alcohol. We went back to mine and made out. This led to me undressing her, and engaging in foreplay. I touched her with my hands and mouth, she came and it was great. I would say I had a semi-erection during this, but I wasn't massively aroused. I told her that I'm abstaining for any sexual activity (on my end) for 90 days as a test of my will and determination. She asked no further questions regarding this. She rubbed my dick a bit, but never really pursued it as I joked about her breaking my willpower and she respected that. I'm just thinking out loud here, posting my thoughts I guess, but also asking a question. How long before I get back to having erections when fumbling around with a girl? I have absolute confidence in NoFap, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't slightly anxious when she touched me. I want results now, but I guess that's not realistic. Overall, I don't feel that aroused on a day-to-day basis, which helps me in my abstention. The next time I do anything sexual with this girl I think I will allow her to touch me more, maybe even give me a blowjob - and see if that arouses me enough to get a full-on erection. Does anyone have any thoughts? Appreciate your responses. FYI, I am 22.