23 y/o No job, no education, no friends and no girlfriend

Dude if it helps. I'm 43. I left my wife of 14 years after finding out she was having an affair. I'm now back living with my mum who is an absolute nutcase. I don't really have any mates anymore which can happen if your too involved in a relationship. It doesn't get any shittier than this.

Your young, going through a tough patch, maybe a bit lost in life but you have a good opportunity to turn things around.

The peeps on this forum are priceless. The amount of support and love on here is amazing. Take all the advice here and use it as the foundation for a potentially fantastic new chapter in your life.

Remember, when your on top of your game finally, there will always be others that will need your help and support. You'll have the skills and experience to help them as well.

We believe in you bro. You just need to now make the first few small steps towards that life you've always dreamed of.
 
Sachin4 said:
Well I am also going through the same thing, I am 23 as well, no friends, no relationships, I live with my dad and brother but we don't act like a family, im single for 2 years, I just got let off from work in July 2019, everyday I think of ways of killing myself., so yeah I made a decision that I will, so I suggest you do the same... People will only tell you stuff to make you feel better about yourself but they don't know what it's like being you or me... So see url on the other side..
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What is it with suicidal people trying to drag others down with them? Just because you refuse to do something about your life doesn't mean everyone should.
 
In a similar-ish position job-wise, hope your life has gotten better dude, if it has let us know
 
Tilz said:
Dude if it helps. I'm 43. I left my wife of 14 years after finding out she was having an affair. I'm now back living with my mum who is an absolute nutcase. I don't really have any mates anymore which can happen if your too involved in a relationship. It doesn't get any shittier than this.

Your young, going through a tough patch, maybe a bit lost in life but you have a good opportunity to turn things around.

The peeps on this forum are priceless. The amount of support and love on here is amazing. Take all the advice here and use it as the foundation for a potentially fantastic new chapter in your life.

Remember, when your on top of your game finally, there will always be others that will need your help and support. You'll have the skills and experience to help them as well.

We believe in you bro. You just need to now make the first few small steps towards that life you've always dreamed of.
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That's beautiful man, you will find love for sure, it'll be true this time around, you'll turn it around for sure.
 
I'm sorry to hear such posts about suicide.. I feel now a bit the same, although that is due to a momentary relapse and tomorrow I will set back the counter. My point is that what has helped me to overcome really bad suicidal thoughts (I was like you) is to go back to my roots, pray the Catholic Rosary etc. So you should probably find a religion.. Try Catholicism if you are from the US I am sure you'll find young people there who can help you. Here in Italy is a bit more difficult but the priests are very understanding and when I confess my sins they stress the importance of being grateful for what you have and repent for the past...
Come on, looking forward to hear from you, I am starting retaining today! Back to day 0...
 
ElTrigly said:
As thread name, it's all completely true. I failed my education, i can't get a job bc i have no drivers licence or experience. I am to anxious to meet up with a girl, and frankly shouldn't since i have nothing going on in my life that would bring anything to the relationship. I lost all of my friends when i fell into depression and social anxiety. I am 23 years old and sitting at my computer highlighting icons at the desktop all day long because i am so bored and restless with my life. I am on nofap and no pmo, and the effect are great, however they dont really matter when i have nothing to use them at. I could really use some helping tips, i am very sad and depressed.
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foucus on what you can do, you can get a job with no experience
 
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