24 old male looking for AP

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by zzben123, Jun 21, 2018.

  1. jojosun

    jojosun Fapstronaut

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    Mate I feel you. I hate how this is taking up space and time in my live. Like, I'd consider myself as being quite diciplined and an effective worker. It's really dissapointing I struggle so much to do complete this! However, it is probably a sign of how important it is.

    Also had to reset, back on day 1 :/
    I basically started two new jobs this week. Both flexible and few hours. But I wanted to be well prepared and prioritised the job over my habits and the reboot. Ended up being really tired and not sleeping enough. After the relapse (looked at porn and masturbated, after hours of procrastination and feeling terrible) I just felt quite shit and for the last two days didn't do any meditating / bed time routines or any of the other good things I try to incorporate into my life. But it's important to get back on track.

    So yeah, congrats on the new job. It's a good opportunity but for me it was also a big risk and I didn't handle it well.
     
  2. Mohammadmalekpoor

    Mohammadmalekpoor Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys
    Can I join your group too?
    I’m on 1/90 in 90-day challenge
     
  3. getitrightt

    getitrightt Fapstronaut

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    I'm on day 11 of a 30 day challenge (I plan on going more though :) )

    You guys are doing great! Such an inspiration!
     
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  4. yellowbox

    yellowbox New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I'm also looking for an accountability group. Can I join yours? I'm 22, just started on day 1 of no PM. Let me know if you're still accepting. :)
     
  5. getting better

    getting better Fapstronaut

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    There are so many ups and downs in a process like this... Falls will always be inevitable. I feel like the point of this exercise is getting to a point where a fall can remain an independent moment that doesn't lead to guilt, depression, or binge.

    For me it's a tough to balance how much of my conscious focus should be on the reboot. On the one hand if I forget about it completely I will almost definitely fall. But on the other hand if I am constantly thinking about refraining from masturbating I also think I'm more likely to fall because I think about masturbating so often in that mindset.

    Good luck getting back on the horse...
     
  6. getting better

    getting better Fapstronaut

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    Of course you can! No barriers to entry here. Just all young men with a will to break some bad habits. Good luck and keep us updated on your journey!
     
  7. getting better

    getting better Fapstronaut

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    Great to hear. Good luck on your journey and welcome to the group!
     

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