Hello, all my life I couldn't talk to women very well as I wasn't used to being around them. Recently I left my moms and moved in with two girls which helped me quite a bit. At one point I noticed it's been like 1.5 months since I did PM so I decided to keep going. Worked on myself and started dating a girl (she's also virgin). When we got to bed, to my horror I noticed that I couldn't keep it hard and couldn't even make her lose her virginity..Only now I realized the terrible consequences of watching porn since I was 15. It's been like 4.5 months already since I'm on PMO mode and for at least last 3 months I haven't felt any urges whatsoever. I believe this is called flatline. I got partially erected during the first "sex" but the next time I felt nearly nothing. What should I do now? Should I just get more comfortable around her without forcing/thinking about it? Or should I avoid sexual contact completely? How long does this flatline stage takes? Please help!