25y old male --> AP in Central Europe

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by cesare_undici, Mar 19, 2018.

  1. cesare_undici

    cesare_undici Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    as stated in the subject, I'm looking for an AP somewhere in Central Europe. I am 25 years old, doing my masters at university, into sports and trying to get rid of my porn addiction since 1 1/2 years.

    If you're up for this together, pls message me or comment here.

    looking forward to hearing from you!
     
  2. pjelou

    pjelou Fapstronaut

    Hey I'm also from central europe, 27 catholic, like sports and music, in a serious relationship. would you like to join forces?
     
  3. Hey, I'm 24 years old and located in Europe, GMT+1. I've made it to 90 days recently. I think connections are important which is why I'm looking for another AP. PM if you'd like any further information.
     
  4. cesare_undici

    cesare_undici Fapstronaut

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    hey pjelou and bashi,
    we could form a group and call ourselves the three musketeers (though we will not be fighting an evil cardinal but porn). if you guys are up to this, and willings to connect via KIK, just send me a pm with your user name and we can from a group. sounds good to you? but i am certainly open to other suggestions on how to connect and stay connected as well.
     
  5. I think that is a good idea. I'd prefer Telegram though, do you guys use that?
     
  6. cesare_undici

    cesare_undici Fapstronaut

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    nah, haven't heard of that one. I just downloaded kik because I've been told that it's used here in the community. and I like the idea that you don't have to share your phone number as it works through connecting via user names.
     
  7. I see. I've tried Kik in the past but I didn't really like that app. Do you perhaps use Discord? I've actually found a group there, it's a public Discord server called "Ascend". It's a group of people doing NoFap.
     
  8. cesare_undici

    cesare_undici Fapstronaut

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    Which of the two discord or telegraph is used by more nofap mates, do. you know? I'd prefer the one being used more often, also as you say to connect with other groups there.
     
  9. I haven't found a proper telegram-nofap group therefore I'd say "Ascend" is a good option. The number of people there is growing and there are a maybe ~20 people online regularly

    Edit: you can joing using this link: https://discord.gg/Et42ry
     
  10. ClaudiaZ

    ClaudiaZ Fapstronaut

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    Can I join? I am not catholic. But in Germany.
     
  11. cesare_undici

    cesare_undici Fapstronaut

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    hey ClaudiaZ, sure. our AP group is not exclusively limited to catholic people.

    @Bashi sorry for being a little picky about this, but do you think it is beneficial if the group exceeds like 10 people? I am afraid it gets rather anonymous then and one doesnt know much about the people posting stuff. what is your experience with this, or do you share similar concerns?
    I'd like to have a group of like 5-8 people, where you know a little the background of each so that when they message you, you can give specific advice instead of just posting "keep on being strong"-messages.
     
  12. I'm not catholic either. Like cesare_undici said, it would be fine.

    I understand your concern. In fact, when I started NoFap I preferred 1:1 APs instead of groups. The thing is: when one of the two starts making progress and the other does not, the goals start to differ too much and the "productive" accountability is not there anymore. That's why I'm looking for a group at the moment.

    Edit:
    What would you guys (@cesare_undici, @pjelou, @ClaudiaZ) like to use?
    • Whatsapp
    • Telegram
    • Kik
    • Discord
    • Other(...?)
    I know some of you might be against one or the other option but I think finding a consensus would be the first step. Me personally, I'd be OK with Whatsapp, Telegram or Discord.
     
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