26 years old Virgin and Some Suicidal Thoughts

Hey man, i am in same boat as you are only with a much worse track record. I am still trying to change my life. I may not be able to repair it totally but some improvements are always welcome. Don't loose hope.

 

Hey hello
First you feel ashamed to be virgin at 26...
Why ? Who tell there was an age to be not virgin ?
Don't stressed out about this, this is all bull shit you know.
A man is not a man just because he is no virgin anymore.
You take a great decision to stop PM.
This is hard and a lot of people won't have the strength to do it.
Good luck stay focus on your goal ☺

 

Don't stress out or sweat the fact you are a virgin still. It is only in our hyper-sexualized (modern)-westernized world it is seen as something abnormal or weird. A society where media, celebrities and advertisement stresses people to have sex and think about lust all the time is completely out of touch with reality and the things people really needs.
Some of the most manly, enlightened and disciplined men on the planet (who meditate and focus on self-control and spiritual activities) have abstained from sex, alcohol, drugs (and all other perils of the modern world) for their entire lives and do also live healthy and happily way into their 100's. It is only yourself who picture yourself negatively and negative vibes can be felt by anyone you meet, as well as positive ones.
I would suggest to focus on self-improvement first and foremost. The longer you master NoFap in combination with meditation, self-control, an improved diet, etc, the more calm, content and happily will you feel about yourself in the long run and that positive vibe will be sensed by most people you meet.

There are plenty of success stories about men who didn't lose their virginity until their 30's, 40's or even 50's and they did so after improving themselves for some time so don't beat yourself up by claiming it is too late to get going.

 

Instead of worrying about my virginity, I am more concerned about making my life worthwhile. I suffer from poor self confidence and anxiety. But, I have added certain productive habits in my schedule like working out. It helps with stress. I am adding more. Relapses still happen like yesterday. But simply because I haven't had sex is no reason to commit suicide. Rather, I want to succeed in life as a person. One day, I will defeat this demon.

 

While you'll feel ashamed about yourself you will never gain self confidence wich is necessary in life.
I suggest you to just ignore people because most of the time they ignore you too, then i know how hard it is (for me it is) to look people in their eyes but that's essential.
And then spoiler you're not the only one on earth to haven't had sex. A lot of very good people around the world stay virgin for a long time wich is not a mark of inferiority, no one care about that.
The society is formating you for having sex the younger and the most of time possible... this is so stupid.
I personnaly preserve my virginity until i found a girl that i really fell in love, when i found her i wait to see if i can have confidence on her, then i offer her my virginity as a gift, as a proof of love.
Because for me virginity is really important, in a wolrd where every one want just to have sex the most of time possible, preserve himself for a person that you'll love is become really precious.

 

I'm sorry to hear about your problems, I too have my own similar to yours but how is giving into masturbation/pornography for relief going to help you at all? It's going to make your life much worse; especially if you give in once it's gets difficult, that's where you really need to get serious about fighting this sin.

 

Also, your virginity is irrelevant - giving into to PMO isn't going to help you bond with a woman or find the person you should be with. PMO emasculates you and makes you undesirable.

 

I know how hard it can be not to think about sex and lust when everyone and everything around you seem to revolve around it but my best advice is to not give a f*** about it.
I was stuck in this trap myself for a decade and a half but I can assure you that leaving the PMO-lifestyle behind (while improving yourself simultaneously) is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself and future friends/girlfriends.
Because, when you leave PMO behind, you will not just become a more productive and disciplined man but you will also start to see and perceive people around you as humans, not walking objects. Your ability to emotionally and physically bond with a woman will increase tenfold which is what most of us men really want if nature has its say.
You will also become more confident and centered which will be felt (through vibrational energy) by the people you meet.
My life before and after PMO can barely be compared, it is like day and night (literally)!!

 

You have a really bad opinion of sex but i can't blame you for it because i was just like you.
Yes i was thinking that if i can't have sex the younger as possible my entire life would be affected and i could not go on with life while i still virgin.
Yes i had this stupid thought who make you feel different from other people while you are virgin and they are not.
This feeling have destroy all my self-esteem, and of course when you think that, you can not jave confidence in yourself.
So i suggest you to go on dating app, find a girl, fuck with her then tell me if you feel better... "spoiler alert" you'll not feel better because nothing will change, all your problem will stay, you will not be more confident and not gain self-esteem just by doing this.
I say that to you because i was thinking that my life is gonna be all different just by don't be virgin but i was totaly wrong, my life as all change when i accept the fact i will never be someone else, i will never be the cool guy, i will never be the most muscle, never be the most clever, i'm just me, i'm alive and i should be so happy to be and stop always tell me that i'm a shit just because i'm not the best of all. Being the first is not the purpose of life, being the first is for those who need a rate.