28 year old handsome ladies man virgin

modern milarepa said:
Also never heard the words ladies man and virgin in one sentence. I didn't believe it was possible but I see it is.

I feel you bro
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Trust me it's so fucked... if you met me in real life no one would think I have this issue. Everyone sees me as a player. But everytime I go to fuck a girl I'm soft af. I usually just blamed it on being too drunk.

Isn't tadalafil the same as cia|is??
 
modern milarepa said:
It's but the dose I'm telling you is for ED you use it daily even if you are not having sex, it's for improving blood flow in your penis.
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Is Recovery slowed down by this? Has it any negative Effect on Rewiring Process? Tried Cia...lis few Years ago and it realy went well. But at the Time i didnt knew what the Problem was...
 
johndoe365 said:
I'm the OP.
I think I'll give this a try for 90 days before I ask for any pills from my doctor.
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Usually the treatment goes up to 6 months. 3 months can be a bit short, but still you can see great improvements by that date. If you still haven't fully recover I advice you to go up to 6 months which is the normal standard for ED cia**s treatment
 
modern milarepa said:
Usually the treatment goes up to 6 months. 3 months can be a bit short, but still you can see great improvements by that date. If you still haven't fully recover I advice you to go up to 6 months which is the normal standard for ED cia**s treatment
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Interesting!
I kind of want to try NoFap hard mode for 3 months and if I see no good results by day 90 I'll go to my family doctor and see if I can do a tadalafil treatment.

As for the psychological factor the only thing that used to hold me back was my immigrant parents always screaming at me for not dating a girl of the same race... Which would mentally effect me around girls. A couple months ago I finally stood up to them and they are cool with me dating whoever I like so I got that taken care of.
 
Update:

I ALMOST FUCKING CAVED IN LAST NIGHT. I got drunk alone, went in bed, started M'ing without the P. Stopped myself before I O'ed. Thought to myself "don't fucking do it, you beta piece of shit." Then I went to go talk to one of my roomates to get my mind off it.

Note to self: no more getting drunk alone. Def a trigger. The numbing feeling of getting drunk is nice, but not alone, only with friends.
Also being bored/alone is definitely a trigger. I have a very busy life style so during the day I have no time to do it. Its always right before bed at nights that is a struggle. I gotta start watching a show or something to distract my mind until I go to bed.

I have gone without porn for 1.5 years. But I still MO'ed once a week to once every 2 weeks. Still have ED.
I really hope not MO'ing is the final piece of the puzzle because simply cutting porn isnt enough.
 
Update:
I FUCKED UP. Met up with a girl from tinder. Went from innocent pumpkin patch to back to my place. Told her straight up my dick aint working cuz of PIED. Still jerked me till I came... Twice... Resetting the fucking counter.... FUCK.
No more coming back to my place until I'm done 90 days at least.... :/

Should I just delete Tinder/Bumble for 90 days until my shit is working again?

Side note: today was a great day at the gym. Hit a new PR for bench. Also went on a jog today. Ran 5k in 25min. Havent ran in legit 5 years so I'm glad I still got it. The runners high I got after almost felt like the same high u get from O'ing. Its a great relief. So I'd recommend you if you need to O then go on a nice long jog haha
 
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Update:
Halloween weekend was a busy one. Had a huge party, but had to avoid this one chick who wanted to sleep with me... Nothing feels worse than shying away from a girl who wants you because you know you can't perform.
No urges or anything to PMO.
No morning woods yet but I'm only on day 10.
Today I felt sad, worried I'll be forever alone. I really hope this NoFap hard mode can cure me.

My doctor gave me some blue pills for my ED a couple months back, and to my surprise it didn't work. I used it 4 different times. I did some research online and psychologists who have been researching this have noted that people with PIED won't be able to get it up with the blue pill because its not a physcial issue. The brain is the issue, from years of porn abuse the neuropathways have wired themselves for the dopamine release from porn stimuli. Luckily the brain is plastic meaning it can rewire itself which is why we are all here. I heard the magic number is 90 days for most people. Research showed tho for people like me that had access to porn at a young age it usually takes longer than 90 days, so well see what happens.
 
johndoe365 said:
Currently drunk, its 1am, I am heart broken.
I started masterbating furiously when i was 12. Started spiraling down fucked up and more fucked up porn. This caused me to be impossible to get hard with a girl in person. I'm fucking 28 and I can't get an erection with any girl (still a virgin). Not to sound cocky but I am a bartender, very social, many girls want me, I tried but I couldn't fuck a single one (tried with over 50 girls). I went to my doctor, got my blood work done, surprise surprise there were no issues. Doctor just prescribed me some blue pill and said I'll get over it. So 3 times i took a 50mg pill, my dick still didnt work. Then I meet this girl who is my type, blonde, blue eyes beautiful, but she says she wants a fwb. I'm looking for a relationship. 3 months of hooking up and no success with getting hard. Finally, I decide to take 100mg of blue pill and get a half boner and managed to barely fuck her. She gets tired of my limp dick and starts fucking some random guys on tinder... So here I am now. Heartbroken, devastated. I want to get my shit together. I am going to try to do a weekly updated minimum. My goal is to hit 90 days of NoFap at the very least. I'm sick and tired of this shit.
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This post sounds very deeply, I'm sorry that you're going through this.
Doctors are unbelievable, they don't find anything wrong, and even though they prescribed some pills... It just doesn't make sense. Do you also struggle to get erections when you're alone?
 
TantraMan said:
This post sounds very deeply, I'm sorry that you're going through this.
Doctors are unbelievable, they don't find anything wrong, and even though they prescribed some pills... It just doesn't make sense. Do you also struggle to get erections when you're alone?
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Yeah doctors are bullshit man. I used the pills he prescribed with a girl and it didnt work.
The girl left and then I looked at porn to see if I'm good down there and instant boner....

I just got some severe PIED and I gotta do hard mode for at least 90 days to reset my fucking horny brain.
Not gonna lie though these past 2 days I did start to masterbate for a bit then i had to stop myself. NoFap is not easy :/
 
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