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29 never had a girlfriend or dated, I’m losing all hope

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by superstorm250, Jun 18, 2022.

  1. Usersamedame

    Usersamedame Fapstronaut

    this is a painful subject. On one hand we are humans, social creatures who crave and need love, companionship etc, but on the other we need to progress and become our own person.

    if you are obsessed with a relationship you are evidently lonely and love sick, (this thread is loneliness do yeah obv)
    but realistically you need to understand alot of modern women, usually younger like 20s.

    these girls just want to have fun with guy and live carefree in their early years and c'mon don't we all? You do don't you? You said you want several women, you wanna have fun like them, so just make that energy your focus, you're inexperienced but so was everyone else at some point, but horniness says "fk that". I cant give you expert advice anyhow, I'm 21, no kiss or relationship. But i have something, a girl crushed on me in college, never spoke to her. That's confidence for me.

    you had a bird in bed with you 7 years ago had had sex right? Be proud of that bro.

    so a summary as another guy said, we all wanna have fun when we're young and you're around 33% into your life, women at 30s are more serious than those younger bunnies, so maybe date at women your age or slightly older?
    good luck i suppose.
  2. Usersamedame

    Usersamedame Fapstronaut

    in all honesty, guys mess up 90% the time.
    girls ain't gonna know your experience or dik size until it's in their face right? So just keep screwing them until you get good? Just me broski
  3. TheRisingShogun

    TheRisingShogun Fapstronaut

    Watching couples have sex when your a single virgin is like locking a dog in a cage and making the dog stare at a pile of meat.

    PMO is emotional pain disguised as emotional pleasure.
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  4. OhWhenThe

    OhWhenThe Fapstronaut

    Same, although it's mainly because I've never actually tried meeting anyone, I completely replaced the need with porn. Only since trying to quit did I see how bad that was and the hole it's left me in. I don't know the first thing about women or dating, it's a totally alien concept to me now and one that I struggle to comprehend in my mind. I have no idea how people even meet once you're past the school stage and it seems doubly impossible when you also have literally zero friends.
    Fullyawake and superstorm250 like this.
  5. superstorm250

    superstorm250 Fapstronaut

    Couldn’t have said it better myself, I did the exact same thing because I’ve always had low confidence when it comes to dating and girls, I thought that I would get rejected at every turn and no matter what I did or changed about myself would make any difference and that PMO was keeping me safe from that.

    It wasn’t until I got older that I realized how bad of a mistake that was, and I was past the school age when I came to that realization as well. I’m considering working with a dating coach that I found online who specializes in helping adult aged men with no dating experience, I don’t know if it’ll help but it might be worth a try. I also feel you on the zero friends thing, my last friend moved away a couple years ago and the only other people I could hang out with are my coworkers from a summer job I do every year, but we usually only hang out once after the work season ends and that’s it. So I really don’t have any friends either and I get worried that a girl won’t want to get involved with a guy who has no friends.

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