3 months NoFap still having PIED

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  1. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I am suffering from PIED and decided to cut off P immediately since 4 months.

    Then I started NoFap in easy mode: I waited 1 month before having sex with a woman and then sometimes edged/fantasized (not about pornographic situations, just girls).

    After 3 months of NoFap I still couldn’t see any improvement. So decided to relapse by having an orgasm during sex thinking it would be rewriting my brain to sex.

    It got worse, I am still suffering from the symptoms I had:
    - Max Hardness to 75%
    - Glans soft when erect
    - Hard Flaccid I think
    - Can’t have an erection when standing up, or need constant stimulation
    - Difficulties to urinate, need to kegel for the last drops
    - When I lose an erection it’s hard to get hard again
    - After an orgasm it takes a while before I can get hard again
    - Sometimes glans is purple/green at the ridge
    - Morning Woods that I lost when standing up. Now I don’t have any after my relapse

    I’m scared of being injured because before I could masturbate from 2 to 7 times a day lying down and a year ago I tried jelqing for 1 month.

    but maybe I’m wrong I’m only 18.

    Did I do NoFap the wrong way ? Should I go Hard mode ?

    and also I think that my pelvic floor is tense and weak but I don’t know if I should do kegel/reverse kegel at the beginning or wait for it.

    Do I need to stay away from anything that concerns my penis for some weeks/months like sex, kegeling, edging etc... ?

    I’m very lost I’m afraid of not being cured.. what are your suggestions ?
     
  2. nick young

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    have you seen a doctor?
    go describe these symptoms to him.
    persist on getting a penile doppler test
     
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  3. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    no I’m not used to see doctors.

    I want to, but I’m still living with my parents so I don’t know if it can be anonymous and if it is expansive.

    is there a high chance that I’m injured ?
    Even If I only suffer from pelvic floor unbalance and PIED but not injured can he helps me ?

    thanks for your reply
     
  4. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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  5. dzigi

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    I also have PIED. Easy mode is not a solution!! Start monk mode and than you are going to see improvement and cure yourself!
     
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  6. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    I’ll definitely go this way, the hardest thing would be abstaining from sex. I think I’ll abstain for 3 months and then integrate gentle sex without orgasm with my girlfriend

    So should I exercise my pelvic floor as a complement ?
     
  7. dzigi

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    I wouldn't, let it go natural course. Monk mode 90 days
     
  8. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

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    try hard mode or monk mode for 90 days

    Your "easy mode" that included edging didn't help you, in fact, the edging likely harmed you.

    Read this about edging:

    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !


    You've got work to do. Get started.

    One day a a time is how we all succeed
     
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  9. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    I thank both of you it reassured me.

    It’s been 1 week without fantasizing and edging, I’m having spontaneous sexual thoughts sometimes but try not to get pleasure from it or intensify them.

    It seems very long like my 3 months easy mode but I think I can go through this because I don’t feel any urges towards P and it will be long term benefits for short term efforts ;)

    Have a good week-end / week !
     
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  10. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    Sorry for double post

    If I introduce gentle sex after 3 months is avoiding Orgasm similar to edging ? Should I go for O or not ?
     
  11. dzigi

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    If you cure Pied after 3 months ( God help you) i think you should go and enjoy having sex and orgasm but don't rush it. Don't think about that too much, just relax and enjoy
     
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  12. bfdet

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    Do what is right for you and your partner and what is good and fun for you both.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  13. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    Ok I will reintroduce sex when I feel it, trying to not fantasize or making P scenarios.

    Thanks for your help
     
  14. TigerKing

    TigerKing Fapstronaut

    Flaccid after orgasm is normal. Not ideal. But it's no indicator of anything wrong.

    But I would seriously reccomend seeing a doctor. That stuff about your penis being green is not something you get from porn or jerking off. And I don't think urination difficulties you can get from masturbation either.
     
  15. Anonymous86

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    You mean the dick shriveling up after orgasm is normal?
     
  16. mulisa5017

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    I don’t know if I already had this but it doesn’t really appear green.

    it’s very subtle and it looks like blood has difficulties to flow, like if you had a tiny bruise (it’s just in a little part of the edge of the glans) for the urination problem I think this comes from too much masturbation on prone position that screwed up my pelvic floor


    but You’re right I should go to a doctor, it’s not easy due to personal problems but I’ll try to talk about it to a professional when it’ll be possible.
     
  17. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    mine is like filled up with blood and getting bigger in flaccid state for like 1/2 hour and then it shrivels up.

    didn’t pay attention to this it was normal to me until I read the symptoms of hard flaccid
     
  18. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    Hello, it has been 3 weeks in hard mode.

    My morning woods came back after 1 week but then after 2 weeks it disappeared.

    now My penis is 50-60% erect during the night at like 4-5 AM but no « morning wood »

    I had sexual thoughts (no porn scenario) that I ignored but after 2 weeks I sometimes amplified them I don’t know if it counts as a relapse.

    However in 1 week I’ll see the doctor, I hope this can help me.
     
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  19. modernstore99

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    To echo what some other said above, edging is definitely bad. The only reboot that works well in a short period of time (~90 days) is a hardmode one. Do not actively seek non-human sexual stimuli, and do not masturbate for 90 days.

    After that, since your sexual reward centers have basically been wiped, it's normal to still not get very hard erections. Your mind doesn't really know what to think is arousing and stimulating. If you try having sex with a girl, it will feel alright, but very mechanical and biological, like burping or eating. However, if you keep having sex, your mind will like it more each time, making you harder and more aroused. This generates a feedback loop, making you harder each time you have sex until you achieve maximum erections.

    About 1.5 years ago I had terrible PIED, and could not get any type of erection when in bed with a girl; I was also 19 at the time, so I knew something was really messed up. I did a 90 day hardmode reboot, then went right into having sex. At first I wasn't very hard, and could only do missionary, spooning, and flat doggy while staying at least a little hard; my erections at first were a little more than half chub. I didn't seek orgasm, and just did what felt nice. Every time though, the pleasure felt better, and I got harder each encounter. I eventually started orgasming every time during sex, and 1.5 months after my reboot, I was having frequent sex with 100% orgasms every time.

    While it can be a little discouraging and awkward at first, if you do the reboot right, erections and orgasms won't come easy at first. If you keep enjoying yourself though, staying in the moment, and think positive, the erections and the pleasure will increase until it becomes the greatest thing you've ever felt.
     
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  20. mulisa5017

    mulisa5017 Fapstronaut

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    Hello I’m glad that you healed from PIED.

    I feel that I’m recovering, now I don’t worry a lot about PIED I just think a lot about sex but no P thoughts or scenarios.

    I can easily have an erection when I cuddle with my girlfriend, I think that I need to maintain it longer and get it harder but I will exercise my pelvic floor when I’ll feel it

    Your message gives me more confidence ;)
     
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