Hello, I am 30 and been jerking off to porn since 8. I remember the first playboy I found in my dad stuff and I remember the sensation of rubbing it for the first time. I believe we always try to achieve that feeling again. Then I grew up with Internet porn, and in my case, growing up as gay man, porn is even a bigger issue because when you are in the closet that's basically all you have. Then I grew up, got out of the closet and started having my first experiences. The problem with me was that at first I can keep a very strong erection, when I kiss a guy I'm instantly rock hard but as sex goes on it keeps going from semi to hard, depending on the stimuli or if I touch it. It kept happening for the 5 years of my last relationship, and I never thought it was a problem I just always thoght that it was my was of having sex. But it started bothering me that I cannot orgasm with oral sex, and that sometimes I take too much time to cum. I've been to a bad breakup of this relationship and After that I stated taking care of my selfsteem and that was when I stared to research about my problem and found this website. I relate with so many cases and so many symptoms. I have been jerking off regularly to porn, cam sites and all, to the point where I would do it 3/4 times a day. It never disturbed my studies or my personal life so badly because I would schedule it to my showers and my time before bed but I realize now that porn and masturbation have changed my brain to that kind of stimuli only and I want to have a more fullfilled sex life. I'm going for 90 days without porn or jerk off but I have dates where I would like to see if I can take sex further. Anyone think this is a good way to start?