30 days- After almost 2 years of failing

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  1. Daviesmark1

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    I made it to day 30 today, after failing countless times. I have been on this site since August 2015 and my record is 17 days.

    I finally made it to the target I have been aiming for all this time. I could not have got there without the help and support of @IGY

    All I can tell those who are constantly stumbling is... DON'T GIVE UP!

    My 30 days was not how I expected it to be, this was because I had some trouble towards the end of the month... which I will explain:

    Benefits :

    More Energy- I definitely felt more energised waking up in the morning and felt like I had a purpose.

    More confidence around woman:

    Now, this is the biggest step for me. At the start of my 30 days, I began talking to this spanish girl where I am living ( student accomodation)

    She is 21 and I am only 18. But, this is the key to NoFap.

    It was giving me the energy to get her and impress her, I was going to the gym with her daily, going out for coffee, going running, going to the library. Having someone to connect with and a girl to potentially be with spurred me on so much I started to forget the days. When I was meeting her my confidence was sky rocketing and i felt great.

    NoFap gave me the confidence to even ask this girl out. Unfortunately, I didn't get the answer I wanted which made me kinda sad and upset and made the whole month feel pointless, but none of that I don't think I would have done without the powers of nofap.


    Negatives :

    flatline- I have been flatlining for the past week/ week and a half and it is not nice. I have been feeling down and depressed, compounded by the rejection of the girl.

    Blue balls: This is something which is never fun to experience

    Concentration: This won't apply to many, but because I wasn't fapping and this stored so much sexual energy, all I focused it on was this girl, so much to the point that she was all I was thinking about and I couldn't stop. This wasn't helpful around my exams and I couldn't just jerk off to relieve this.

    But, let me tell you, you will notice differences.

    Please get out of the cycle, it is possible
     
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  2. An inspiring story Mark and my pleasure to give you the support enabling you to get to your first completely clean month.
     
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  3. SnowWhite

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    @Daviesmark1 Congratulations! Especially at age 18, this is really remarkable!
     
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  4. Daviesmark1

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    Thank you :)
     
  5. Daviesmark1

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    Thanks :)
     
  6. Journey_

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    Great progress, keep going man!
     
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    Thanks bro!
     
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