30 Days Hard Mode!! My one top tip...

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by PeetaMellark, Apr 14, 2015.

  1. PeetaMellark

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    Just thought I'd share with you that since I have failed a few times and never thought Hard Mode was an option to me as I am married, the one thing that got me through:

    Just say NO!

    It's not as easy as it sounds...

    When you wake up and your hand starts to creep under the covers - NO.
    When you want to look at yourself in the mirror naked because you're feeling awesome - NO
    When you want to look up triggering websites - NO

    Keep saying NO, then call someone and change your mental space, take a cold shower, go for a walk, run, gym.

    Just say NO.

    It's been really fucking hard, but it worked when I needed it too.

    Stay strong guys...
     
  2. Alloallo

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    Congratulations!
     
  3. PotentLife

    PotentLife Fapstronaut

    Congrats! You sound strong and vibrant as I read your words. I'm excited about the possibilities!
     
  4. Rdr76

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    I agree completely. It's the one thing that has helped me. When I get an urge, I simply stop my mind and say no. It's a choice not a way of life. If you can't control it, what's the point. Keep up the good work!
     
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  5. PeetaMellark

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    Thanks guys.
    I think the best thing about these forums is that we're not alone...

    Stay strong.
     
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  6. ITs Possible

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    Thx man for your tip!

    I will remember that when i get my urges.. i will stay STRONG..
     
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  7. excelsior

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    Awesome. I'm wondering how you're able to do hard mode while married. Your wife knows about your quest I take it? Either way, thanks for your inspiring words. I'm not doing hard mode (I'm also married) but I am doing NoFap, and your advice can help me in my own quest/situation. Thanks!
     
  8. DireWolf

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    Great thread and good work, your behaviour is amazing.
     
  9. PeetaMellark

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    @excelsior Yes my wife knows... Very supportive...
    I love your avatar name... Silver Linings Playbook right?
     
  10. excelsior

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    That's awesome that your wife is so supportive @PeetaMellark
    I'm sure that helps a lot.
    And thanks! Yeah, got a little inspiration from that movie :) It's a pretty inspiring little tale. Good luck to you on your quest!
     
  11. cris1007

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    i love the hunger games too :)
    and awesomee!
     
  12. Mathew43

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    What we think we feel, and what we feel we tend to do, so starting to take control of our thoughts seem to be a winning concept. Thanks for posting. It reminds me
    to stay more vigilant of what I am thinking about, and if I can stop it right there, it's a little bit easier than controlling an overwhelming feeling. Keep up the good work bro !
     
  13. PALM

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    NO what a great word! Will use it to battle the urges!
     
  14. PeetaMellark

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    Flatlining today...
    I just keep saying no...
    But boy is it hard...
     
  15. onmytablet512

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    Take a cold shower and do some push-ups :) And just remember to keep saying NO! 43 days is incredible! You got this dude!
     
  16. PeetaMellark

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  18. Jiten

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    Going great! I hope to be there soon.
     

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