30 days hard mode no PMO success story (16yo male)

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  1. nopmo101

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    Hello!

    My story:
    I discovered M when i was 11 yo. Started watching soft-core porn (adult magazines, late night sexy films in TV, etc.) at 12yo. At first I was quite amazed with my new discovery and started fapping to soft-core porn everyday. With time I developed addiction and normal soft-core porn wasn't enought to excite me. When I was 12 or 13 I discovered online tube porn sites and I developed foot fetish. Soon it wasn't enough and I developed other fetishes (femdom, bdsm, incest etc.). Finally at 14yo I realised that I have a problem. Normal porn wasn't exiting for me anymore.
    At the end of 2016 I discovered NoFap and I created account on this forum. From then I relapsed A LOT of times because I wasn't motivated enough to succeed. In past 2 years I made some nice streaks (few 7 days, 25 and 27 days) but in the fact I just focused on not fapping and not watching porn which is not enough to succeed. Now I know that if you want to see some NoFap benefits in your life you have to focus on changing your whole life.

    What motivated me to succeed this time?:
    The last time I fapped to porn was really sad experience for me. I was watching porn for few hours in a row and orgasmed around 12 times in a row...... After that I was so depressed that I cried for some time and I promised myself that I won't watch porn ever again. That was source of my motivation. Sometimes you have to hit the bottom to bounce.

    What I was doing during those 30 days (except for no PMO'ing) and what I experienced:

    Days 1-6:

    Generally at the beginning I focused mainly on not relapsing becase in the first week the risk of relapsing is the highest for me. I spent some reading success stories to boost up my motivation.

    Days 7-14
    From day 7 I started working on improving my social skills. I improved my eye contact with girls. At first it was hard for me but after few days I was able to keep eye contact for few seconds even when I was talking with hot girl. I also went to some parties to socialize more. With time I became more confident.

    Days 14-20:
    This week I experienced some strong urges but I overcomed them by reading success stories. I was still working on improving my social skills and my confidence was going up all the time.

    Days 21-30:
    Last week was a bit unpleasant for me I experienced 3 wet dreams (at day 22,23 and 28). Also I've had some blue balls day before every wet dream and randomly during day time.

    Benefits of NoFap after 30 days:
    • Feeling less depressed and more positive about future
    • More confident even around hot girls
    • I am able to keep eye contact with everybody
    • I am more social
    • I want to be around people and I like going at parties
    • I smile more often
    • I am more happier
    • People now want to spend time with me
    • Girls are talking to me randomly
    • More energy
    • I changed my thinking about girls. Now I see them as somebody to build a reletion with not as a sexual object
    • My fetishes have not disappeared yet but feel that they are slowly going away.
    Disadvantages of NoFap:
    • Wet dreams. The are sign of recovery by they are annoying.
    • Blue balls. Possibly the worst thing on NoFap. I don't know why they occur and what is triggering them. I couldn't find any useful informations about them. I only know that i have blue balls almost always day before wet dream.
    This is only beginning of my journey. I can't wait to see further benefits. My next goal is to hit 60, and then 90 days which is considered as full reboot for most people. In next month I want to change my habits and become more productive. Now i waste too much time at doing nothing.

    Fell free to ask any questions. Sorry for my english. I am not native english speaker.

    Good luck on your journey!!!!
     
    Last edited: Jun 2, 2018
  2. Burak1999

    Burak1999 Fapstronaut

    Great content mate, I wish you the best further! I'm new on this forum, although I had an account on Reddit NoFap for a year, now I discovered this great website for NoFap it self :) Keep going!
     
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  3. Well done. I've not completed a 30 day hard-mode cleanly before (fantasising and edging severely undermines any time completed). I'm going to do it this time.

    Very interesting post, thanks!
     
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  4. nopmo101

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    Edging almost always leads to full PMO relapse and edging also releases dopamine just like PMO. I think that motivation is a key to stop edging.
     
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    Dude this is awesome. Keep it up, the weird side effects will pass as your body continues to heal. Never go back!

    You were having sex at 14?
     
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  6. nopmo101

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    I meant that normal porn wasn't exciting for me anymore but some strange fetishes were.
     
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  7. Inactive User

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    Oh lol ok
     
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  8. Toni678

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    Thank you for the insight.. Indeed motivating.. Is wet dream harmful
     
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  9. TheFlash123

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    That's awesome man.

    Keep going.
     
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  10. Burak1999

    Burak1999 Fapstronaut

    No mate, wet dream is a sign of your body recovering naturally, don't think it as a reset to your counter. Trust me wet dreams releases due to the high level of testosterone in our bodies. And stop comparing it as a relapse, it's not the same! When I had about 40 days streak before joining this great community wet dreams was never a problem for me, I just smiled and said to myself, that my body recovers naturally. I never losed energy or felt weak, I just became stronger because it's a sign that your body produces high testosteron level.
     
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  11. nopmo101

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    Of course wet dreams are not harmful. They are sign of your body recovery from too frequent masturbation. Wet dream is not a relapse or reset.
     
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  12. nopmo101

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    Just relapsed to porn. Sorry guys :(
     
  13. Burak1999

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    Don't say sorry mate, we all make mistakes. Just like "fall seven times, stand up eight". What caused you to do it?
     
  14. nopmo101

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    I was so excited that I could think only about PMO and it happend. I hope that I won't lose all progress. I only watched one video for few minutes.
     
    Last edited: Jun 4, 2018
  15. Burak1999

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    Well unfortunately I relapsed too, feel like shit right now :/
     
  16. Awesome man..great job.keep it up.
     
  17. nopmo101

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    Don't give up man. Look at the positive side. Now we will be on the same day :)
     
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  18. Burak1999

    Burak1999 Fapstronaut

    True haha, we can do this man! ;)
     
  19. Thandoe

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    I'm also new to this platform and reading these stories motivates me. Its been about 8 days since I last fapped and I'm willing to work on full recovery and I know I can do it.
     

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