I’ve made it past 30 days without porn or masturbation, which I’m proud of. However, I see my ex nearly every shift, who I lost my virginity to while wearing the wrong condoms (too thick to feel anything) and I’m just crawling the walls inside my head because I’m so damn attracted to her. For the time being, she doesn’t seem interested, in large part because she has a boyfriend. I’ve got two other co-workers I’m interested in and I’m thinking about trying Tinder, but I’m nervous about dating. My ex approached me and set up our one night of sexy time, so I largely have no experience approaching women and connecting with them. I don’t like the idea of one-night stands, because I want the women I’m with to feel appreciated and respected. Does anyone have any advice?