30 Days is Killing Me

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by muterabbit, Mar 20, 2018.

  1. muterabbit

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    I’ve made it past 30 days without porn or masturbation, which I’m proud of. However, I see my ex nearly every shift, who I lost my virginity to while wearing the wrong condoms (too thick to feel anything) and I’m just crawling the walls inside my head because I’m so damn attracted to her. For the time being, she doesn’t seem interested, in large part because she has a boyfriend. I’ve got two other co-workers I’m interested in and I’m thinking about trying Tinder, but I’m nervous about dating. My ex approached me and set up our one night of sexy time, so I largely have no experience approaching women and connecting with them. I don’t like the idea of one-night stands, because I want the women I’m with to feel appreciated and respected. Does anyone have any advice?
     
  2. Abird

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    First I want to say: "Congratz with getting 30 days!!!"
    I think the hornyness is playing a part and also seeing your ex isn't best idea.
    You can try to ask your co-workers to do something after work. Maybe with some other people.
    This will give you some common ground, and the next time you see that co-worker you can ask "Hi, wasn't .... fun?"
    And you have that ice breaker and can go to asking to do something with your co-worker
     
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  3. muterabbit

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    Thank you. Seeing my ex isn’t exactly optional, since I don’t have control over when our work schedules overlap. Doing some group activities after work with my other coworkers is an interesting possibility. I’m not sure what I could invite them to do. One of my friends at work bought a bundle of tickets for Infinity War and invited me and one of my coworkers I’m interested in, but that doesn’t hit theaters until May.
     
  4. Abird

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    I'm not sure what kind of work you do and how old you are. But you can always do some team building or an activity with people you work with. That's pretty common.
     
  5. muterabbit

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    Pizza delivery, and I’m 33.
     
  6. SolitaryScribe

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    Is this one night sext time with your ex, or with another girl that your ex knows?
     
  7. muterabbit

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    With my ex. It was so surreal. I had been fantasizing about getting in bed with her ever since she started working with me, and it actually happened. The weird part was that I didn’t really understand why she liked me, and I didn’t do anything special to make it happen, other than kissing her.
     
  8. SolitaryScribe

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    But doesn't she already have a boyfriend?
     
  9. muterabbit

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    That was before she dumped me and got a boyfriend.
     

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