30 years, male, looking for a like-minded person to overcome masturbation and porn!

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  1. Boris_Britva

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    Hello everyone, I'm 30, I'm from Ukraine!) I never thought that I would get to this kind of site ....
    There have been various problems in life, cigarettes, alcohol ..... masturbation and porn.
    He managed to overcome nicotine addiction, stopped drinking alcohol.
    And I can’t overcome the pornographic “poison” in any way. There are no more forces.

    But I want to try again to change my life, and I would really like to receive and give moral support to those people who are also struggling with their problems.

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    Всем привет, мне 30, я из Украины!) никогда не думал что попаду на подобного рода сайт....
    В жизни бывали разные проблемы, сигареты, алкоголь.....мастурбация и порно.
    Сумел перебороть никотиновую зависимость, перестал употреблять алкоголь.
    А порнографический "яд" все никак не могу побороть. Сил уже нет.

    Но я хочу снова попытаться изменить свою жизнь, и я бы очень хотел получать и давать моральную поддержку, тем людям, кто тоже борется со своими проблемами.
     
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  2. Jerry2Rick

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    Okay Boris. No porn and masturbation from here on out. Do you promise?
     
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    Of course )
    3rd day!
    but it’s hard, full isolation and lack of work due to quarantine)
    Fu**ing COVOID-19 )
     
  4. Jerry2Rick

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    Reading, journaling, cooking, cleaning, exercise, and meditation my friend. Good for the mind, body, and soul.

    Women, drugs, and pornography leave you slave to your vices and your emotions.

    If you're serious about quitting, I'd be happy to be your AP.
     
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  5. Boris_Britva

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    It was very hard tonight, bad thoughts haunted me.

    There is an epidemic in the country, the economy is falling, people are dying, and after all this I have vulgar thoughts.
    Something wrong with me....
     
  6. Jerry2Rick

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    You bet Boris there is a lot wrong with you. You used to smoke, drink, and watch porn and masturbate. I don't know you that well, but you've probably said hurtful things to people who didn't deserve it, let people take advantage/manipulate, fall short of your own expectations, fooled around with women you shouldn't have, and mistreated yourself in countless ways. Any of that ring true?

    There is a lot wrong with all of us. Me included and probably especially. The thing is that doesn't matter. We all have flaws and that's what makes us humans (and not fucking robots. Goddamn I hate robots).

    The question is what the fuck are you going to do about it? Are you going to watch porn, masturbate and give up? Or are you gonna fucking stand up for yourself and country AND FIGHT!!!!!!

    Keep going brother, you're getting stronger.
     
  7. Jerry2Rick

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    You bet Boris there is a lot wrong with you. You used to smoke, drink, and watch porn and masturbate. I don't know you that well, but you've probably said hurtful things to people who didn't deserve it, let people take advantage/manipulate, fall short of your own expectations, fooled around with women you shouldn't have, and mistreated yourself in countless ways. Any of that ring true?

    There is a lot wrong with all of us. Me included and probably especially. The thing is that doesn't matter. We all have flaws and that's what makes us humans (and not fucking robots. Goddamn I hate robots).

    The question is what the fuck are you going to do about it? Are you going to watch porn, masturbate and give up? Or are you gonna fucking stand up for yourself and country AND FIGHT!!!!!!

    Keep going brother, you're getting stronger.
     
  8. Boris_Britva

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    maybee....

    I never had a good relationship at school, had no friends ... I did not know how to make contact with a girl, and that's why I surrounded myself with alcohol, porn, cigarettes ...
    Life did not bring joy
    And now, when I am already an adult, to give up what has brought me pleasure for about 20 years ...)))
    Fu*k iys so hard)
     
  9. Jerry2Rick

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    Brother if you can see how much porn and masturbating was hurting you, you could see a new life for yourself in the future. You're an adult now and have unlimited freedom. Taking away porn and masturbation will allow you to build a life you haven't yet dreamed of. Carry on soldier.
     
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    Thanks. Today is the 5th day ..
    Thoughts constantly attack the brain:
    watch porn, masturbate ...

    Trying to get rid of them as I can. This is a real test)

    So far so good, hold on)
     
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    I reassure myself with the thought that after the 21st day it will become easier.

    Many scientists say that if you do not do something for the 21st day, then you begin to forget about it.
     
  12. Jerry2Rick

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    It will become easier and at the same time you will become stronger.

    Have you read YourBrainOnPorn.com?

    Stay busy, stay active, go for walks, read, take cold showers, meditate, journal, and do in-home workouts. You have great opportunity ahead of you. Once you defeat this poison, you'll see that the other obstacles in your path are small problems easily overcome.

    I believe in you Boris. Stay strong my friend.
     
  13. IK070

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    Buddy, please don't watch porn and never masturbation, instead of these two better you do sex in real. I know it's difficult to leave your addiction, but doing hard work can save you only! Be a man! And never watch porn again!
     
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    I downloaded this book, but it is in English
    my English is very bad, so I’ll use Google translator, maybe I can understand the point)

    How are you? How are you feeling?

    This morning I almost broke, but withstood the pressure of bad thoughts =)
     
  15. Jerry2Rick

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    I feel very good. Exercising daily. Reading. Going for walks. Meditating. Feeling at peace. Staying busy. Being productive and enjoying every moment.

    You are doing well. These are the hardest moments. After that it only gets easier. When it is no longer a habit, it becomes so much easier at that point. Best to conquer this quickly and early. That way you take all the energy and attention from PMO and use that for living your life to the fullest.

    We are soldiers on the frontline. Run towards the gunfire.
     
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    I also feel good, but even taking into account sports and work, in the morning and in the evening there is a strong desire to get an orgasm ...
    I also got sick today (temperature 37.2 ((

    I rode a bicycle and was blown by a cold wind ((
     

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