30yr, married... doing it for my family and my career

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  1. beerbert

    beerbert New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody

    first of all, forgive my terrible english!

    I'm a 30 year old italian man, married since 2012. I have a beautiful wife, a beautiful daughter (10 months), and a very good job.

    I'm into pornography and masturbation since I was 14, never thought about how bad it was for my social life.
    I used to PMO almost every day untill marrying: since then, it seems thing are going worst!!!

    Even if I don't masturbate that much anymore, it seem that I've becomed more addicted to pornography. I've never really craved for porn, but in the last two year it happened frequently, driving me to spend a lot of time watching porn at work.
    Usually I Don't watch porn at home, fearing that my wife could catch me, but when I'm home alone, it's almost impossible not to fall.

    It helped me a lot to read some experience of Fapstronaut!
    I've decide to reebot my life, giving up PMO. I'm starting a month or so of work far from home, going back to my family only in the weekend: do you think it would be a good period to start?

    Thank you to everybody!
     
  2. mjtx

    mjtx Fapstronaut

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    I think it's a great time to start. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow may never happen, so seize the day!

    I am married too, and I am not ruling out sex with my wife. It's my hope that by giving up porn and masturbation it will make my marriage stronger.
     
  3. goinggood

    goinggood Fapstronaut

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    I hope you succeed. I feel much better and a bit more stronger reading through all the posts. Thank you, all of you.
     

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