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31 Days Experience: Life Changer

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Eaglevision_2019, May 9, 2020.

  1. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Background
    • 30-year-old and been addicted to PMO since 15.
    • Longest streak 90 days
    • Married. Currently my wife is away-for about a month now. Caught by Covid-19 lock-down.
    Reasons for joining Nofap
    • Severe brain fog. It was so severe that I thought I had permanently damaged my brain with dopamine.
    • PIED. I lost that natural attraction to women. Not even kissing felt anything. I was just like an inanimate cold log. Zero feelings.
    • Impaired social life.
    • Tiredness all the time. I couldn't work. I had lost focus and concentration.
    • I felt purposeless and lost.
    The past 30 days
    • I quit social media, well Facebook. It was the only platform I used mostly. In retrospect, it has significantly contributed to the success of my 30 days streak.
    • No browsing in bed. I have adopted a strict bedtime routine. Once I jump into bed no phone. I throw on my duvets and sleep right away.
    • I have been busy with work. I am a freelancer.
    • I haven't exercised as much. My schedules has been so tight. I need to improve on this.
    • I have been regularly using supplements: Zinc and omega three fatty acids.
    Benefits
    • My social skills and confidence have increased by an appreciable degree.
    • My productivity has hit the roof. I have done more than I thought I could do. Almost doubled my bank account and finally looking to buy my first car.
    • I have been at peace with myself.
    • I have purified my mind to some extent. I no longer obsess over sex or sexual stuff. I have more noble thoughts that occupy my mind.
    • I have a strong will and dogged determination.I pursue something-a goal or any routine activity with strong determination and motivation.
    • My sleep has improved.
    • I no longer have that morning feeling of waking up already feeling disillusioned and negative about life.
    • Brainfog has improved although not all of it.
    Challenges
    • My willy still looks small an shrivelled up. I don't care and I have not tried 'testing ' to know whether things are okay. I don't need it sexually speaking for now. It also feels cold, sometimes.
    • My morning woods have been inconsistent.
    • Objectifying women is still a challenge, but I feel it's gradually improving
    Conclusion
    • The road is still long and urges strike when you least expect. I have to find a way to exercise because I know it has so many benefits to my nofap journey.
    • To all who are trying and failing I want to let you know that you have it in you to overcome this evil that has imprisoned many of us for so long. There is life and in abundance beyond PMO.
    • I never believed I could go 30 days without PMO. I can feel it's slowly taking off its grip on me.
    • Nofap will give you freedom and unmatched zeal to become what you're really meant to be.
     
  2. congratulations my friend, I have just hit 32 days an hour ago, feeling stronger than ever. Things might feel quite hard during lockdown but I'm trying to stay positive and thankful for this opportunity to change, keep on with the fight
     
  3. Your story is just like mine. Hopefully I can reach 30 days too, good post man. Keep at it
     
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  4. ELN

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    Reading you, I have realized that I also don't feel almost anything kissing my girlfriend. I have never thought it could be due to porn...
     
  5. akshay thakur

    akshay thakur Fapstronaut

    I feel motivated after reading you i feel PMO really spoils everything. Never give up brother. I hope u reach the 90 days mark soon. May God be with u always.
     
  6. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Let's do this mate.It's unbelievable how much life fapping has siphoned from us down the drain of ruin and mystery.
     
  7. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you man for the compliment. I am convinced you can reach 30 days. I suggest you set aside time to get information about PMO (your brain on porn is a good one) and its negative effects. Quit social media if you can. Stay strong and always remember there is so much life beyond PMO.
     
  8. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks sir. It's a slow and gradual process with measurable positives. That's for sure. I didn't know quitting social media would create so much time. I send my best wishes to you too brother.
     
  9. Eaglevision_2019

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    It is the first culprit. It numbs feelings. More like becoming robotic or mechanic. I think too much frying of our receptors by dopamine changes our perception of reality. All the best man.
     
  10. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Blessings to you too buddy. Thank you so much. I wish the same success in your Nofap journey.
     
  11. Congrats on the milestone!! If you've already done 90, then you've definitely got this!! :)
     
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  12. Eaglevision_2019

    Eaglevision_2019 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, man. I am happy for in your current streak. My goal is to entirely eliminate PM from my life, and O only with my wife. Although Nofap cannot fix all your problems, it is undeniable that it gives you the capacity and energy to choose wisely and do what you choose to. In other words, it gives you freedom to make wise decisions.
     
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