33/male/married/Christian love my wife but struggle w/ SSA

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by zzyzx, Apr 12, 2015.

  1. Trajan15

    Trajan15 Fapstronaut

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    How are you today? Still waiting for a critical mass to start a group.
     
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  2. JimmyT

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    doing pretty well; I have been really busy, so not much time to think in places I shouldn't be. I had an awesome conversation with my girlfriend yesterday about my struggles and we are closer together for it. It's been a good day. How are you doing?
     
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  3. stepofsearch

    stepofsearch New Fapstronaut

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    Hi folks,

    If the momentum for a group is still there it would be great if I could get in, no SSH and I'm not a church-going Christian but am really interested in being around people who reference Scripture in their spiritual struggles, good luck to you all cheers.
     
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  4. Trajan15

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    Good today. Awesome that you shared with your girlfriend.
     
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  5. JimmyT

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    Glad to hear you are doing well :)
     
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  6. RyanH

    RyanH Fapstronaut

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    I would really appreciate being able to get into any group that is formed as I could really use the accountability and counsel. No current ap. Really struggling.
     
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  7. Dlmusic55

    Dlmusic55 New Fapstronaut

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    Would be happy to chat and help. Same boat here.
     
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  8. RyanH

    RyanH Fapstronaut

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    You make a very good and valid point, roifwoha. Thanks for the thoughtful warning.
     
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  9. socks

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    Hey guys, I created a Kik group - you can search #nofapssa to find it.
     
  10. socks

    socks Fapstronaut

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    You can also add me on Skype and I can put us into a group chat - prime.time.200
     
  11. insearchofme

    insearchofme Fapstronaut

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    How far with the group? Functional already? Can I be invited? I have similar issues
     
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  12. JimmyT

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    hey "insearchofme" thanks for replying to the thread; do you skype? we have a skype group that we were forming; I have been away for a week out of town, so I'm getting back in touch...
     
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  13. Surfer

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    I searched for the #nofapssa group and didn't find it on Kik..
     
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  14. Tanlo

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    I've been staying away from kik. I find that's where people of any orientation for hookups.

    Frankly, I've been doing better on my own as I have found other SSA men, Christian or not, with their motives once they find one another desirable. Sadly, I am included in this group. Fortunately, I have been successful with supporting one guy I met here and we are both happily married. Of course the SSA is there, but so is the friendship. I hope to find that kind of brotherhood here.
     
  15. freedomwarrior

    freedomwarrior Fapstronaut

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    Also happily married and still struggle with SSA. Willing to support others in same situation.

    FW
     
  16. borrish18

    borrish18 New Fapstronaut

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    I made a group on kik see below. It’s particularly geared to Christian married men and fathers who struggle with ssa.
    ssachristianmen
     
  17. Tanlo

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    Hi Borrish and group! I'm 34 and have been married for 3 years. I told my wife about my ssa before we decided to get engaged, but only recently have we been able to approach the topic without it turning into a fight. We have a great relationship now, but she's quite religious while my social life is quite secular. We have great sex, but I can't deny my attraction to men. Would be great to talk with other guys here who are facing similar issues.
     
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  18. Hallo. Im 34 married M also struggling with unwanted ssa. Would live to engage in conversation with other guys with the same issue.
     
  19. What is the kik group? I'd like to join
     
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  20. freedomwarrior

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    Me too. You are not alone. You are in good company.
     
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