34 M Looking for AP

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Gvn2Fly, May 2, 2019.

  1. Gvn2Fly

    Gvn2Fly Fapstronaut


    Well after trying to quit (again) in March and April and never being able to get past day 5 I spent the latter half of April giving up, saying I could never quit, and going into long binge and relapse sessions and spending hundreds of dollars. I am at the end of the line here. I don't know what else to do. I had AP's in the past but they all stopped responding after a week or so (they relapsed?)

    I'm also addicted to femdom/findom/humiliation and looking for an AP that has the same struggle and can understand the different challenges of this type of addiction. I don't know what to do anymore.
  2. 34 M here. My flatline (no erections) started exactly an year ago, and being ignorant I thought something was seriously wrong with my health and started to abuse it even more just to test repeatedly if my thing was working. I learnt that flatline can last for years and was relieved.

    I will be here, but the only thing I don't share with you is those specifics like femdom/findom/humiliation.
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  3. gametimemember

    gametimemember Fapstronaut

    Dude I feel you, I'm a similar age also.
    I've spent a lot of $$ on online dommes, findom, phone sex etc. The addiction just seems to get more and more intense and you need to spend more and watch more intense humiliation porn to get the same high. Seriously I was looking at some fucked up shit.
    I was at the point that I had no desire for vanilla sex and couldn't even stay hard during normal sex (assuming because of death grip). All I can tell you is that this will eventually lead to you doing more and more riskier shit. There are some crazy bitches out there that want to blackmail and out guys for their fetishes, anything to get some more cash out of you.

    I am new here and am nowhere near cured, I'd like to make that abundantly clear. However I recently met a sweet girl that I am very into and is open and into different kinds of roleplay in the bedroom. All while still building (I'm hoping) a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
    The first time we hooked up I was just honest with her, I told her the kind of shit I was doing prior to meeting her, and I mean everything. It's literally the first girl I've ever been honest with when it comes to sex. She was comfortable and understood and said alot of the things I was into we're actually a turn on for her.
    I'm not sure if this is a success story or me just rambling but being up front and honest about my fetishes and past has taken such a weight off of my shoulders. It's made me aboe to say no to online dommes and to the destructive behavior I was engaging in.
    I hope this helps man, keep posting and let us know what's going on.

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