I'm growing to understand the degree to which pornography is affecting me both physically and mentally. I don't have any moral objections to porn, i don't think it's something from which everyone needs to abstain but clearly it's not something i can enjoy without repurcussion at this point. I am married and sexually active though the frequency and cooperation from my you-know-what aren't where i want them to be. I'm looking to go 90 days without jerking off. I'd be happy to talk about some of my less-than-proud moments and struggles. I hope to offer some strength and perspective and hopefully benefit from yours.