35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    I'm starting my new years resolutions today.

    Need to lose COVID weight gain ASAP then I'll need to work on the extra from before COVID.

    New Focus on NoFAP

    Weekly and daily goals on hobbies/side interestes. My life is more balanced and hopefull when I'm working on dreams. I finished a book last year but I want to edit it and send it on and move on to the next things.

    I'll just post the NOFAP stuff here but that's my thoughts this year...

    Oh yeah and I expect to fail numerous times but I want to journal it and restart ASAP with all the goals when I notice then slipping.

    @discovery I get it. Glad to see you are planning to still post. I look forward to seeing you get rolling again when you feel ready.
     
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  2. Rebooter13

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    Yes this is true, the next 1-3 days are very blur, specially if i am coming after back to back relapses.
     
  3. Rebooter13

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    I get that sense of feeling too , the only problem is that it didn't last that long, at least in my case.
     
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  4. discovery

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    Thanks man. And glad to see you motivated about the coming year and your plans and goals. Best of luck with them.
     
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  5. sjindjin

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    Checking in on day 10, pretty cool little milestone for me and going well so far. I do from time to time find that little voice in my mind asking if it is ok to look up this or that stimulating (non-porn) imagery. However, I know that giving in to that voice would mean losing control and quickly ending up watching porn, so I have not given it even an inch, and I have been able to maintain very good control. Weird thing is that when I hear that voice, I feel some psychological urge, but it's not even sexual arousal per se, it is all still purely hypothetical. On to 20....
     
  6. mrguy

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    A date flaked out on me. That's okay. I am at day 30 of no PMO which means I am an Elf in the Lord of the Rings game here. I've also noticed more people smiling at me generally. Coworkers, women at the gym, even outright strangers will just say hi to me on the street with a soft smile. This stage of NoFap/no PMO is really nice. I feel more confident, but in a calm manner, not some fake-alpha jock nonsense manner.
     
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  7. GottaBFree

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    Felt so good about the new plan and already messed up.

    I'm starting now I meant to say lol. I have to laugh or I'd cry lol.
     
  8. @mrguy - Congrats on your 30 days!
     
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  9. raf-is-good

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    Checking in, glad to see good new here from everyone, hoping for the best!
     
  10. emanuel_free

    emanuel_free Fapstronaut

    Hi there everyone, I'll be out take some days off, so I probably won't check in for a while @artifact just letting you know so I can keep my place. But if you consider let other be there, no worries of course.
    I'll be 190 on new year's day !!

    So I wish you a happy new year ! And I invite you to join me and make it clean 2021 !!
     
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  11. Jerky

    Jerky Fapstronaut

    Reset my counter today. Grateful to be starting a new year clean.

    It's been really rough. Especially the past 15 days.

    The most important thing is abstinence. Glad 2020 is done.
     
  12. NICEDUDE

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    Again struggling a little bit. Need to get back my focus. Need to identify the compelling reasons for doing this on hard mode.
     
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  13. GottaBFree

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    My men, I hope we have a better year than next year.

    A new year can be a new start if we make it one. Less PM and if we fall stand faster. That's all it takes.

    Happy New Years!!!!
     
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  14. I reset yesterday, but the good news is I will have one day on New Years Day! What a great opportunity to start a new streak. Wishing you all the best in the new year.
     
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  15. On a desktop you go up to your profile (where it says your username) and on the drop down menu click on "signature". That takes you to a page where you can add whatever you like to your signature (the text that appears below or above your counter every time you post).
     
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  16. Nash78

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    Thank you .
     
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  17. Nash78

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    Happy new year to everyone. Have a wonderful, healthy, wealthy and PM free happy new year. May you get the strength to stick to your resolutions and achieve your potential.
     
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  18. Jerky

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    Looking for balance in the new year.
    2021 seems an odd number but thats good for me being the oodball i am.

    2 odd numbers make 1 even
    Let's hope
     
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  19. bama_lost

    bama_lost Fapstronaut

    Hope everyone has had a hopeful and inspiring new year. I'll be looking forward to passing the 2-week's clean mark tomorrow.
     
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  20. JJ_Kino

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    Little bit late but Happy New Year one and all.

    Really hoping I can get a string of runs together and see where I am.

    Cheers everyone.
     

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