35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. Martial

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    @SeekingEnergy I don’t personally, but if you scroll back through the group’s messages, you’ll find some references to it. Some people have definitely found it helpful for them.
     
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  2. SeekingEnergy

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    It looks like when you say easy "peasy" method it autocorrects to that... it's the same thing maybe.
     
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  3. Resetting again....frustrating but need to be kind and compassionate with myself. This group is the only way I can keep away from P.
     
  4. Circleinthesquare

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    4 days in after a very honest with my s.o. Feel so much more determined than I ever did before.
     
  5. JJ_Kino

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  6. Martial

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    Me, I’m the opposite of kind and compassionate to myself. I wash my balls with iced water in the mornings. Neighbours probably think Chewbacca’s in there passing a kidney stone at 7am every day. But it seems to be working for me so far, together with giving up the drink and exercising more. A couple of months ago I was as randy as Priapus, now I’ve about as much interest in women as Benedict XVI. Got to be constantly vigilant though.
     
  7. Circleinthesquare

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  8. GottaBFree

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    Checking in

    @jaberwaki I agree with the decsion to move forward in life. PM wins if we sit around trying to wait it out and you are doing amazing.
     
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  9. Circleinthesquare

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    wednesday check in - on for a week now
     
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  10. Martial

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    @Low Tide High Tide I wanted to be the first to congratulate you on your 90 days yesterday! I read your earlier posts and you sounded really motivated. I kind of feel the key to beat this or any addiction is that you have to need to, not just want to. My experience anyway.
     
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  11. JJ_Kino

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    I'm struggling with health issues at the moment, I've ballooned up in weight.

    Feeling sad but need to soldier on.

    Hope you're all in good health, stay safe god bless.
     
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  12. @Low Tide High Tide - Congratulations on your 90 days as of yesterday! You are now a member of the 90 Day Hall of Achievement! :emoji_trophy:
     
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  13. Jerky

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    Haven't been active for a while. Stayed clean for close to 90 days.
    Gave in to edging twice in 2 days.
    I ended it there. I'm glad it's over.
    I will reset my counter.
     
  14. SeekingEnergy

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    me too man.
     
  15. Martial

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    Sorry to hear that. If weight is a particular problem I recommend having a look at David Goggins’s videos on YouTube. He struggled with his weight but went on to become an ultramarathon runner. I think his attitude and approach to life’s problems is the best way to beat addiction I know of. Wishing you all the best!
     
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  16. Circleinthesquare

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    Thursday in and one whole week now! Looking good.
     
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  17. JJ_Kino

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    Thanks lads.

    Just gonna try and eat healthy again, get some exercise.

    I remember earlier in the year, I did quite well refraining from fapping/porn and was eating very healthy at that time.

    I need to make a journal because I forget a lot of the stuff I was doing during the time when things were going well for me.

    Food for thought, cheers.
     
  18. JJ_Kino

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    My mindset I want.
     

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  19. Fantastic life

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    The more i relapse ,the more it become hard .
    Why my will power is not enough to go clean for even one week.
    Someone said very perfectly "it is simple but not easy".

    Those who chase perfectness , please keep chasing.Those who fight ,keep fighting .
     
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  20. Low Tide High Tide

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    I'm back to zero.

    I moved house recently with my wife and our 3 kids, it was an all consuming bundle of stress. That's not an excuse but those were the circumstances. I didn't realise I had actually gone past 90 days. That is one consolation alright as I start over.
     
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