35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. Plethe

    Plethe Fapstronaut

    Thanks for that - really appreciate the encouragement! Starting back up the hill again :)
  2. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    Getting going again. Kind of scared how far my mindset went. Probably worse than ever by a good deal and the drop starter from being in a better place than before.

    There is no maintaining a status quo. I think I defeat PMO or it defeats me in the last end.
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  3. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    as long as you're still fighting , you're basically winning
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  4. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    I think so, but to make sure you can manually block the website by adding the URL to your blocklist in the router
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  5. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    I got a new job!!! I did 2 exams and had 4 interviews in English (which is not my native language ), before Nofap I wouldn't pass the first ONE , somehow I was able to control my feelings and become slightly less awkward :D. To be honest I feel so proud and I consider it an achievement because I was unemployed for 2 years. I realized that life is getting harder and harder every day thus I need a tough mentality to advance through it, and with PMO I will go nowhere. All in all , you attract good things doing nofap.

    this made more persistent to get fully recovered ,and while doing so I will not hesitate helping others to get recovered as well .
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  6. JustinThyme

    JustinThyme Fapstronaut

    A bit of a wank avoidance tip that I use. Whenever I click on a link that I feel might lead to lewd content, I first don’t click it if I have more than a 40% belief that it contains anything, but, if I’m unsure, I stare into the top left corner of the screen, and, if my peripheral vision captures a red flag, I click the back button to avoid confrontation.

    Any other tips out there?
  7. Stelvio

    Stelvio Fapstronaut

  8. JustinThyme

    JustinThyme Fapstronaut

    Duuude! Notice a body part, cast your eyes away and don’t take another look. It’s exactly what I do. Boosts your baseline of anxiety a little, but defends any urge ever.
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  9. Low Tide High Tide

    Low Tide High Tide Fapstronaut

    Reset for me. I have real problems getting past the 3 week mark.
  10. Dissolve_The_Ego

    Dissolve_The_Ego Fapstronaut

    I haven't got to the 3 week mark yet so I look up to you!
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  11. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    Haven’t really gotten going yet, but today is a new day.
  12. Martial

    Martial Fapstronaut

    Check in- happy Friday all!
  13. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    july 1st 2019. Been at this since I was 20 but been on the site working on it for a while.

    It was fun to look at this and the early journal. Lots of people have found success. I used to look at all the missing and see it as negative.
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  14. Thanks Rokus! I'm grateful that you guys are taking part in this thread I created. It helps me a lot too.
  15. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    Counter to 1 and a big day to one day at a time this - get back to good habits.
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  16. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    no matter how many relapses you have , just focus on creating good habits
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  17. goingforit

    goingforit Fapstronaut

    checking in. Happy to get to 60 days. This is my second longest streak of all time and I’ve had years of 1-3 week streaks. My mood has been a little up and down, like I’ll be genuinely happy most of the time and motivated then not feel like getting off the couch the minority, but my sexual interest is low, which is nice.

    I like all these little tips. My strategy when I see an attractive woman is to imagine her negative qualities. Is she selfish, crazy, demanding?

    It was The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes but I actually don’t know which episode. I was ripping through them while doing a project. I’ll check out that episode, thanks for the recommendation.

    Just started The Molecule of More. Interesting so far.

    I find 3 weeks the hardest. When I can actually get past 3 weeks, it settles down.
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  18. marksaysay

    marksaysay Fapstronaut

    Day 169. I was thinking today about how drastically different life is for me, as opposed to 169 days ago.

    I'm happier, more confident, more outgoing. I care way more about my appearance than I think I ever have. I have clearer thinking and seem to really just enjoy the most simple things. Silence for long periods of time is now refreshing. I take cold showers daily. I meditate daily, often several times. I have absolutely no problem striking up conversations with gorgeous women. Heck, today, I literally felt like a woman I had just met was undressing me with her eyes. Her look was quite intense. And she did it on two separate interactions. I use to feel so intimidated by pretty women. NOT ANYMORE!

    After refusing to let my former facility owner tell me what I could charge, I'm now training at a new facility where they are literally building it around me. They're marketing and promoting me all over their social media and website. It's so awesome!

    I no longer have a negative and pessimistic outlook on life and the things happening to me right now, in my opinion, are a direct result in the change in my approach to just life in general. I could probably go on and on, but I guess I'm just actually starting to live instead of simply existing!!!
    Last edited: Mar 11, 2022
  19. JJ_Kino

    JJ_Kino Fapstronaut

    Starting again day 1
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  20. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    this is a beautiful success story , thank you sir , you motivated me to keep going although I don't have that long streak but I also can relate with what you're saying, I'm currently not looking for women attraction atm ( however it would be great to have it :) ) ,but I'm focusing on getting successful at my career , can you tell me how nofap helped you doing your job and how easy things/ tasks got for you with such long streak at your work ?

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