35 and Older Accountability Group

I have read the rules and would like to join this group. Checking to see how to activate day counter now. PM is what I want to refrain from.

 

Checking in. I hope everyone has a good weekend and manages to keep their goals in mind

 

Not checked in for a few days but still going and very few urges if at all. It almost feels weird, like I have no sex drive but I'm not worrying about it, just nice to not want to jack off and use porn/lose all that energy

 

Checking in -
Enjoying the constant activity of a good personal project.
Only using the internet with intentionality (no mindless browsing).
Bouncing the eyes after the first look - it doesn't process further in my thoughts.
Evicting unwanted thoughts as soon as possible - less fuel to start the fire.
All of it is helping me find some stability, and for that I am grateful.

 

Thanks!! Looking forward to finding victory.

 

I have read the rules and would like to join this group.

I am a 38 year old man in a committed relationship. I am going PM mode at the moment. I last watched porn months ago, but had substituted sexy videos and looking up nude pictures until a few weeks ago. Don’t know the exact date so I put my counter to start when I joined this site.

I have not looked at anything, but I have had urges to do so, and would like to be a part of an accountability group.

 

I have read the rules and would like to join the group

 

Thanks

 

Thank you!

 

Checking in. Things are all good on the PMO front. Definitely higher drive these days but acting out is not an option for me, I can't live my life like that anymore. There is nothing worthwhile in PMO for me, I always need to remind myself of that.

 

Willing and ready to put an end to the bondage. I am free in 2023

 

Checking in and going strong...this is the longest streak in AGES! I am well on the way to beating my longest streak

 

I survived the weekend, on 15 days now. I have a chance of getting a good streak going and I don't want to waste it.

Congrats, that's great news. You are at a different stage to me, so you need a different strategy. Right now I am being careful to not allow my mind to wander into anything that would threaten my recovery. But I have found that I don't need to do that any more once I get beyond 40-50 days. It can actually become difficult to stay vigilant when I'm not struggling every day. I think this is where this group can be very helpful, regular scheduled check ins as a reminder of what it's all for.

 

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