35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. discovery

    discovery Fapstronaut

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    Checking in, Day 150 today!
    The new system is going well for me. I feel that I have found my balance.
    I still need to stay vigilant though during my 6 days a week.
    Extremely busy at work, probably won't be checking in for the next week.
    Stay strong my siblings!
     
  2. Freeman82

    Freeman82 Fapstronaut

    back to zero. M'd this morning. Stupid. But still no P which is great.
     
  3. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    Checking in day 60! I beat my personal record of 57 days and now I'm carrying on with this journey. Sorry for not being present here for a while, feeling really sick with some nasty cough.
     
  4. EcoMunchies

    EcoMunchies Fapstronaut

    Well done on the 60 days!

    I'm also on unknown territory passing my personal best streak, now at 48 days.

    This is what this site and the good people here are for, support and encouragement and accountability. Much needed in this world!

    Keep going guys and gals, every day on the counter is another day free!
     
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  5. Congratulations on your achievement my brother!
     
  6. Mi-week check in..celebrating day 108. I am keeping mindfulness at the forefront to watch the true nature of desire.
     
  7. FreebirdFH

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    Back to 0 which is ok. Can't beat myself up. Going through a tough time. I was able to apply the P filters again which I'm sure will help a lot and I"m psyched about that. Forgot what it's like not having filters set up and I've been going to town the last few days. Forgot how much time I used to waste being home alone and avoiding things I need to do.

    I'm going to try and be serious about this and make it to tomorrow morning with no P.M., sign in and take it from there.

    I'd really love to beat this thing. Hope everyone is staying strong!
     
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  8. FreebirdFH

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    Felt like it wouldn't hurt to check in. Going for a 1 day streak now. Not easy being at home so much, but will try and work from somewhere else tomorrow.
     
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  9. control your life

    control your life Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

  10. fpybird1234

    fpybird1234 Fapstronaut

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    ok, starting out fresh again, new PMO counter begins tonight at midnight. New game plan goals:
    day 10 - Sat april 21
    day 30 - Sun May 12
    day 50 - Sun June 1
    day 90 - Wens July 10th
    day 120 - Fri - Aug 2nd
     
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  11. jcforreal

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    Day 2. "Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose." - Lyndon Johnson
     
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  12. artifact

    artifact Fapstronaut

    Good job! 60 is my goal too, my current record is 56 days.
     
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  13. artifact

    artifact Fapstronaut

    Calling @newGuitarHero and @Oscarito - We have two openings for you in the group. Reply to this comment if you are still interested in joining.
     
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  14. control your life

    control your life Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Check in friday ! Weekend is near! Stay strong!
     
  15. fleurette

    fleurette Fapstronaut

    Checking in day 62.
    I love this quote sooo much!
     
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  16. Thank you my friend. I have always thought that mindfullness is rather passive but the more i am walking this new way of being, the more I am realizing the strength of its power. I am firm as a mountain when I am paying attention in the present moment...
     
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  17. Oscarito

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    Count me in. I want to join

    Today I almost went down the road that leads to PMO. I've often noticed that there are seemingly benign behaviors that cause a chain of events that make PMO very likely. It's not obvious things like "Me Horny. Want Porn". It's the small things like seeing a woman in public and allowing myself to think 'that's a nice butt' and then go on with my day. I may not even be aware that I'm thinking it, but later I may be stressed out/ procrastinating something and then suddenly I want to go look at some asses online. Boom, abstinence streak over.

    I guess what I'm saying is that there may be small triggers that happen way before we PMO and if we can avoid them or deactivate them then we can set ourselves up for success.
     
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  18. Thank you my friend. I have always thought that mindfullness is rather passive but the more i am walking this new way of being, the more I am realizing the strength of its power. I am firm as a mountain when I take a bit of space between the urge and the action to see where the urge came from and where it goes...
     
  19. Congratulations Fleurette!!!
     
  20. EcoMunchies

    EcoMunchies Fapstronaut

    Agree completely!
    Mindfulness and meditation, they've been my key to NoFap .

    Day 50 for me!! Yahoo! That's my half century up (for those that follow cricket). Next milestone is 60 days!
     
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