35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. Circleinthesquare

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    Hi, checking in. Been a week of relapse city. Getting to a couple of days then BANG, back to zero. On holiday at the moment so easy to fritter away time on P. ON the plus side been getting down the gym more and getting on the bike more as well instead of driving.
     
  2. jcforreal

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    Day 3 checking in. Today will be a good day!
     
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  4. fleurette

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    Checking in day 63. Have a great weekend everyone :)
    Congrats!! Maybe it would be better to celebrate smaller milestones as well? How about 55? 60? 65? The more occasions to celebrate and to be proud of yourself for the better :)
     
  5. emanuel_free

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    Which is your system ? It may help others! I haven’t found it here.
     
  6. emanuel_free

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    Checking day 12 !! Happy for it. Still working and focused on growing more and more with God’s help.
     
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  7. This is awesome!!! Congratulations on your achievement my friend. We got this, one breath at a time...
     
  8. Checking in at this week end...110 days. Have a great weekend my friends.
     
  9. artifact

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    Welcome to the group. I will add you to the ranking tonight.
     
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  10. artifact

    artifact Fapstronaut

    @fpybird1234 - you have been added back to the member ranking since you changed your goal to no PMO from P. :)
     
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  11. Freeman82

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  12. jcforreal

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    Hello day one again....(24hours, sun up to sun up) I don't want to see you again, goodbye.
     
  13. Circleinthesquare

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    Checking in. Sunny day and no triggers so far today!
     
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  14. PolarOtter

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    Hello, I have read the rules and would like to join this group. I am a 56 y/o male and have struggled with masturbation since before I was old enough to ejaculate. I was a member of a group in the 90s to stop masturbation with some limited success, however, I subsequently got involved in online porn (at that time it was modem, dial up) and over the years, progressed to high speed internet, which took my PMO to sometimes 6+ hours a day (longer on weekends... I was one of the misguided who used the Edging technique, thinking this was "good"). I had never heard of nofap, but stumbled across it on March 25 and am very glad that I did. I am happy to say I have not viewed porn, touched myself sexually, nor orgasmed for 21 days. I also updated my morning routine to include cold showers. I have an improved outlook on life and have been getting to bed and getting up earlier and feel so much more productive. I can't say it has been easy, but it has been easier than I expected... until this morning. I woke up horny and wanting to masturbate and realize I need help. I plan to share my nofap promise with my partner, but that will not be until April 20, when he returns home (he currently lives out of state and we only see each other every 1 or 1.5 months). While reading various sections of this site, found that you recommend 90 days of Retention? I wanted to make a commitment to him... that my penis is now his and I will only enjoy it with him... so it was my plan to share this news and enjoy our being together again. Does this seem like a reasonable plan? What about Karezza (which I don't think I want to do and wonder how different it is from edging), but I am concerned that if we do have sex and I orgasm, I may experience the Chaser Effect. Thoughts?
     
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  15. fpybird1234

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    thank you ! oh.. and checking in today..
     
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  16. Oscarito

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    Today I found myself with some alone time on my hands with which I am supposed to get a lot of stuff done; however, I felt that old tricky PMO feeling pop into my head. So I came over here first, saw that I have 9 days under my belt, and now I feel pretty good. I'm even going to pat myself on the back. Hooray!
     
  17. PolarOtter

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    Nicely done man... I have some time under my belt as well and woke up this morning struggling. I logged in to this site for some inspiration and despite still having intermittent 'difficulties', have continued fap and pmo free. Pats all around!
     
  18. Freeman82

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  19. jcforreal

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    Two weeks of work away from home made it an easy 14 and I appreciated rising in the ranks, but exhaustion + complacency = slip and reset. I had a pretty productive day yesterday despite the PMO and this morning seems solid. Heading out to the gym in a few hours. Journaled this morning about the relapse (if I relapse, I have to journal, I have to figure it out) and then dove back into the work I needed to get done.
     
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