37days of nofap but what next...!

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Revenant in life, Jun 16, 2020.

  1. Revenant in life

    Revenant in life Fapstronaut

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    after persistence, perseverance and going through hard urges and I finally made it, my best score was 1 up to 3 days and i get back to it, but not anymore now i can go for more and porn was easy to avoid, However, there is one question haunting my mind ever since which is :
    what's the alternative ? I am a 19 man, i am social but i am attending not to have sex until i get married as my local traditions are, so there is no chance to meet a girl that i can have a lovely relationship with..., and i'll be about 30 or 40 when i get married.
    so please should i masturbate from time to time ? or should i marry fast ? or what pleaase i need an answer because i cannot wait and neglect my noble instinct !!
     
  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    There are lots of things , u can do but surely avoid pmo.....
     
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  3. Revenant in life

    Revenant in life Fapstronaut

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    please tell me some, i got nothing in my mind!!!
     
  4. FellatiousD

    FellatiousD Temporarily Suspended
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    What do you want to have, and how can you get on the path of achieving it? Want more friends? Go to social events. Want to be a musician? Start playing now! Want to make good money? Work harder in your youth so you can have a good position in your later years. You almost always have a choice. NoFap is just damage control. It doesn't make you a successful person in its own right. You have to take further steps, beyond NoFap. Normal healthy people don't have to do this whole reboot shit - but we are just recovering time lost by PMO. So we're all technically behind, which means you need to move faster than the average person. So yeah kick your ass into shape and get moving!

    I'm studying harder than I've ever studied in the last year because I'm thinking about my future daily. You can do the same. First you need to decide what direction you want to go and then do it. You've already decided that you don't want PMO and so now you're on NoFap. That's an example of the kind of proactivity you need to have.
     
  5. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    19 years? all you need to do is wait. Lot of nice shit is coming in the next years.

    Be cool, relax, play videogames, do sport, eat tasty food, go outside with friends.

    at your age nothing serious will happen, so use your time however you want. Even dont use it.
    As you age, better things comes, as real life problems.

    You have nothing to worry about so be cool and do anything you want.
     
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  6. Revenant in life

    Revenant in life Fapstronaut

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    thanks !!
     
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  7. Revenant in life

    Revenant in life Fapstronaut

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    Thaanks man, exactly but there will be some points in my life where i do want to have sex, wouldn't i ? so neglecting it is the best choice for my situation ???
     
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  8. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    If you have the chance to have sex, I personally recommend to you to go ahead and do it.
    When I was younger I didnt have too much sex and Id liked to have it very much. So I say that if you can, do it.

    Also, at 19 is the peak of libido and sexual power, so use it.
     

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