after persistence, perseverance and going through hard urges and I finally made it, my best score was 1 up to 3 days and i get back to it, but not anymore now i can go for more and porn was easy to avoid, However, there is one question haunting my mind ever since which is : what's the alternative ? I am a 19 man, i am social but i am attending not to have sex until i get married as my local traditions are, so there is no chance to meet a girl that i can have a lovely relationship with..., and i'll be about 30 or 40 when i get married. so please should i masturbate from time to time ? or should i marry fast ? or what pleaase i need an answer because i cannot wait and neglect my noble instinct !!