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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Sr Reeto, Apr 23, 2020.

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  1. Apr 23, 2020 #1
    Sr Reeto

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    Hi all,

    Thought I'd just introduce myself and perhaps gain some insight. I'm 21 and almost a year deep into my first proper relationship. Before this, I was very lonely and I would deal with this loneliness through the use of porn and also through using apps where I could speak to strangers and develop sometimes normal friendships, but eventually my main use of these apps would be to seek sexual pleasure. The problem was that I could stay in bed ALL day doing this and it became very unhealthy but I couldn't stop. This was maybe for about 2-3 years, from 16-18/19. My frequent porn watching started a year prior if I remember correctly, quickly my porn habits became more intense - in which I would watch different things and develop fetishes that I am ashamed of today. I saw no problem in them then, however, I see the problem in them now. Although I do not indulge in these porn habits anywhere near as much, I do still have times where I watch porn that can harm me. It might be once a week now, but I've been reading that this will still keep the neural pathway I have created throughout the years open. The most distressing part is that even though I know it is wrong, I may still be turned on by these things. I sexualise people I might even see on the street and that makes me feel even more guilty because I am in a relationship.

    To know a little more about how I believe porn affected me I'll list below :

    I did not experience any form of ED or PE.

    I did experience low self esteem about my manhood, I'm a good size, around 6.7" and 5.1" girth roughly. However I still got VERY low and still get low about how bigger is better and that ALL girls want this "monster" dick that you can find in porn videos, obviously this only became distressing when I got with my girlfriend.

    My main fetish became cuck porn, where one person with the smaller penis is being demoralized by having to watch his loved have sex with someone of a much larger size. This at the moment has become very confusing as I may still get off to it in porn or a fantasy in my head, but at the same time it makes me very upset.

    Femdom is also a big fetish of mine at the moment, but I believe this is something that I can practive in a healthy manner with my girlfriend. Does anyone believe otherwise, could it trigger old porn habits?

    I went through almost every fetish under the sun. I think blood was the only thing I didn't get into of all things that I know of.
    I get a lot of sexual fantasies throughout the day going about my daily activities.

    If you can relate to these things then just know that you are not alone, whilst I don't have the answer - we can only work together and support one another to find the answer together
     
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  2. Apr 23, 2020 #2
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    Hello and welcome to nofap i can definitely relate to some fetishes you described and i can tell that doing nofap will get rid of them :) best of luck on your journey, any questions or concerns please dont hesitate to ask
     
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  3. Apr 23, 2020 #3
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    Welcome here.

    NoFap may be intense in the firsts days, but after all it will be easy for you. You just need persistance. You have it in you, You just need to find it and develop it.

    Please see my signature, there is threads with keys for you that will help you to stop.

    Hope you will enjoying this community.
    I will see you in the Success Stories.
     
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  4. Apr 23, 2020 #4
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    Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
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    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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    Hello there... :)
    Welcome to the community!
     
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  6. May 1, 2020 #6
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    In this case it won't. The op says they have femdom fetish which is sexual masochism. It's great that you're trying to help though.
     
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    Hi @fedmom, all the best to you! If you want to join 'The Matrix' challenge click here ---> 'The Matrix' <---
     
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  8. Jun 5, 2020 #8
    fedmom

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    Same to you! I have a high end home cinema and I often use the Matrix movie to impress friends funnily enough.
     
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  9. Jun 5, 2020 #9
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    Haha, sweet! Good choice brother.. good luck on your journey, c u around!
     
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